Why does everyone always suggest to tell her and ask her out when a guy says he likes a girl?

Question

I'm currently majoring in human psychology, and these are all wrong.

First of all, those are all wrong. Women like confident guys. If you ask her out, it shows to her that she's in the position of power, as she can reject you. If you compliment her a lot, it shows to her that you are so obssessed with her, that you will do anything for her. Again she knows she's in a position of power.

So let's cover this up: Confidence is the key.

How do you start a conversation? Ask question that have to be answered with more thena simple yes or no, that require more elaboration. That way they can lead to more questions. Think of it as an interview.

Next, you can start teasing, but be sure to include sexual innuendos, because if you don't, she won't know if you're interested in her and you'll be in the friend zone. Also, use lots of touching, AKA kino. This shows to her you like her.

One other thing: don't date middle school or high school freshmen girls. They are very unstable at that age.

I'm sorry, but you guys aren't getting the point.

First off, yes, middle school and freshmen level girls are unstable, same for guys. I'm not saying you shouldn't ask them out, but be careful.


Secondly, asking a girl out does show confidence, but again, it gives her the position of power, so she knows she can control you.

Lastly, sexual innuendos aren't good when you barely started talking, but excellent when you know her for a while. It works best when you aren't dating YET.

Answer 1

Excuse me Mr Human Psychology Major. I'm here to tell you that people in general are unstable. Therefore, if we expanded on your advise and instruct men to not date because women are unstable at all ages...couple that with the fact that the majority of men to have ever passed time on this earth have been unstable...then, everyone is unstable...so, we just need to sit down and stabilize

Answer 2

and (without being nasty) you know this from a book ---- so how many dates have you been on??? and how do you suggest this hypothetical confident person get out on a date if he is too confident to ask a lady??? --- i would suggest that asking a lady for a date (especially in high school) shows confidence --- and finally a teenage guy full of homones and inexperience is stable?????

Answer 3

o rly... very informative =]

Answer 4

geeze......... im sry but i dont exacly kno wat ur asking here but u sound rlly smart