Well, i really like this guy. its almost love, i think.... what im havin trouble with, is letting him know. some of u guys are probably like, "Just tell him, idiot." yeah, but its not that simple. I've fallen so deeply with this guy, that rejection from him would KILL me. so, i need another way instead of being just staright-forward. u know? i was thinking about leaving a note or some kind of writing in my friends binder (because sometimes he just would randomly look through my friend binder) so he could see it and stuff..... is that a good idea? or no? any other suggestions than that?
please, please help :[
im completely comfused here. because i want to know if he likes me back, im just afraid to get hurt. because what if he doesnt feel the same?
:/
2007-12-15 15:49:58 · 5 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it may sound nuts when you're in love so deeply. But try to be sincere. Let him know how you feel. Leave him a note, buy him a sincere gift, call him up, visit him purposely (that will need the ultimatum courage) and have a nice talk. If things went south, just hang on there, and remember, you're not alone...
2007-12-15 16:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by SASA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, leaving the note is not a very good idea, and saying it straight forward would be best but for you thats not an option so i suggest that maybe you should let it happen natrually because
one - you cant make someone like you
two - it shouldnt matter if he doesnt like you back, they're other guys out there who are way better
three - if he rejects you then he's not someone worth liking because then he would probably be the one missing out and thats his fault in the near future
i had the same problem but i overcame it, so im sure it'll pass
2007-12-16 00:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by someone in need of help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd try flirting with him a little and see what happens. Or, you could write him a love letter and tell him how you feel. I wrote a love letter to the girl I like, she rejected me, and it killed me inside like no other pain, but we're still friends, i still like her even though she rejected me. No matter what, rejection may happen, but think of it this way, will you risk rejection to have the happiest person in the world? Good luck!
2007-12-15 23:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by pstwoorbust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could flirt with him for a while to see if he likes you and to get him to like you more.
Leave him a note
Get a close friend to him and then ask him what he thinks about you
Or... TELLIM 8D
2007-12-16 02:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh grow up and just tell him!
TOTALLY kidding!
i have the same problem, im 16 and when it comes to relationships, i act like im 10.
i think the note idea is good.
or maybe have ur friend bring you up, and have him/her say "do u knw..*ur name here*....?what u think bout her"
something of that sort..hope i could help..
2007-12-15 23:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by EPICFAIL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋