hi my name is deen i am 20 this is my situation
Molly an i have been dating for a while we had this instant connection I met her at a bookstore I even remember the dress she was wearing that day we met 4 months ago we talked about from love, to maturity. and to our favorite books, i love the way her eyes dance as she looks at me and the way when you can tell she is happy its all writen on her face , i love maxeing her laugh and watching her sleep as the sunrise goes down and knowing I am her superhero , this all seems quite good execpt we live in a little town in canada where all they see is colour i am black and she is white and in the town blacks make up 1 percent of the population i hear negative comments everywhere when we go out i see weird looks from people , should i start punching people out one by one or walk on by because i am angry its starting to bother me
2007-12-15 13:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by Deen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you worry too much, and wherever you go, there must be someone talking about. when i still studied in the state, people stared at me all the time, because my ex is handsome blonde hair man, and i am a Asian girl. so, people just feel weird. after all, you just don't need to care what other things, and you should pay more attendion inside, and all about her, not others.
you guys are still young, and after you both graduated college, you two can move into the big city, such as New York or some big cities. this situation is temportary and a small test for you guys, so you just need to be strong and ignore them, very simple.
relationship is all about you and Molly, and not about others. who cares what others think. just make her as your princess, and make her friends jealous to get a good man like you. it is the best solution.
2007-12-15 13:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you must change yourself or you will lose this love, which is the most important thing to you
2. the bother is inside of you - you can't change other people's attitudes in an instant. just feel sorry for them because they don't understand. don't you wish they had a love as good as yours? pray for them that they will come to be as happy as you are.
3. don't let society's attitudes about race interfere with your life and love. if you do it will tear you apart. You cannot worry about what others are thinking or saying.
4. maybe you will feel better with some compassionate comments of your own like:
"i know it's hard not to stare at her because she's so beautiful. i have the same problem myself" or
"namaste, go in peace, may you know the depths of love" or
"Hi, how are you, my name is XXX and this is molly, the love of my life" (big smile)
"Hey, we have two chairs here, would you like to join us?"
Open your heart to the hate, and transform it inside yourself with love.
overcome hatred with love
DO NOT BE MEAN TO THEM. no matter what they say or do.
In a 7-year interracial relationship and very happy.
2007-12-15 21:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's hard on your relationship, but you have to be the better person sometimes and just ignore the negative comments. True love can withstand anything, even if it's racial hatred.
2007-12-15 21:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon your gonna crack it and go shoot some people in a fit of rage, go see a doctor, or move to fiji or something, by the way, what does she taste like?, tolberone?
2007-12-15 21:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to lose your girl punch them one by one
or if you want to be a real man ignore it. plain and simple
2007-12-15 21:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Van G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw redcandy, punch them out!
2007-12-15 21:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by m.donov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋