what does it mean when a guy tells you "he wants you"?

Question

we've been platonic friends for almost a year and he was a little buzzed when he told me.

Answer 1

If he wasn't refering to sex, than I don't know what else he could have possibly meant. sometimes when people are "buzzed" they'll later claim that they didn't mean what they said. I believe the exact opposite is the truth. If somebody says something when they're "under the influence", then you are hearing the truth. Usually our good judgment and common-sense will keep us from mouthing our inner thoughts, But alcohol can make us throw all inhibitions right out the window, and let us speak our hidden thoughts. Kinda sounds like that's what your friend found out.

Answer 2

He wants to stop being platonic!
Friends often develop more feelings as they grow to know each other.
If this is not what you want, BE CLEAR.
If he is a friend he will be cool.
But make no mistake: he wants you like a mummy and daddy want to make a baby.

Answer 3

We'll if he told you this when he was drunk he might have just wanted sex at the moment. Dont blow it out of context. I would just resume the friendship how is was before you said it. He might not remember that he said it or if he does he might be imbarassed. Just leave it alone. It isn't worth to ruin a friendship over something stupid like that!

Answer 4

That means he wants to seal the deal with you, do the horizontal mambo, lay the pipe, pop the popcorn, drive it home, hit it, hide the salami, or if he really likes you he might want to make love to you. If he told you while he was drunk, I would question it until he says it when he is sober. Drunk confessions are generally not reliable.

Answer 5

I would say he wants a relationship other than friends with you, but since you said he was buzzed, he may have just been talking out his ***.

Answer 6

It depends on the way he says it. He can mean sex or that he wants you as in a girlfriend-boyfriend way. If you are interested, why not have a little talk with him about it?

Answer 7

he wants to make love to you .. or in his way he's asking for more than platonic friendship

Answer 8

LOL He could mean a lot. You should ask him what exactly he meant.
A. He physically wants you.
B. He wants you as a girlfriend or such.
Don't be afraid to ask . . .

Answer 9

Usually it means I want to have sex with you. But it also depends on how he said it and what he said before and after that.

Answer 10

erm, take a hint. he wants to "hook up"

if he was buzzed, though, dont listen, and wait for him to become sober enough to say something real.