About two weeks ago, I lost my beloved calico cat of 8 years to kidney failure. I miss her horribly, and am so overcome with emotion sometimes. I realize that I miss having a cat around, and was wondering if a kitten would help or hurt me. I realize that a new cat would not be a "replacement" for my other cat, but would keep me company. Is this a good idea, and if so, where should I get it?
2007-12-15 05:31:45 · 24 answers · asked by olivia 3 in Pets ➔ Cats
I think it would be a good idea. Of course a kitten wouldn't replace your cat, but it would give you something to care for, to occupy your attention, and you WILL grow attached to the new one. Go for it.
2007-12-15 05:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by not too creative 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have no doubt about that a new kitten will not take the place of your old one but, if you can remember the happiness the your former cat brought to you then you have the capacity of having a new kitten own you as I did and I found out that I love my kitty just as much as
I loved my other cat. check with a local vet sometimes they have clients who's cats have had a litter and they would like to find good homes for them also an animal shelter in your area there are lots of cats and kittens who need to be adopted to a loving home
2007-12-15 13:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Fig 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever owned a kitten, or only adult cats? I would recommend against a kitten unless you have experience with them and have one being offered to you. I would recommend getting another adult cat from the animal shelter. I have in my life owned 9 cats (not all at one time!) and 6 have been shelter cats. They've all been great cats, and all have lived long and happy lives (14-22 years!--obviously no guarantees, but shelter cats, I'm saying, are as healthy as the next cat--often more so, since mutts tend to do better than purebreds). You can ask the shelter staff for help choosing based on your needs and situation; they're usually pretty honest. Also, you can feel good that you've honored your old friend by taking in another cat and caring for him or her.
2007-12-15 13:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Patty Lee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know exactly. You see, I got my new cat Coccolino after one year and a half after Pitzy died... It was a mourning time for me, because I suffered like crazy! I was affraid to get a new cat, because I saw only illness and death all over the place. Till one day, when I felt in love with this street cat. I felt I can't let him outside to be killed by a car or by a dog...
Any way, if you will get a new pet, you'll shorelly have no regret! And maybe there is a little single soul somewhere especting to be took home!
2007-12-15 13:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Signorina R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every cat is different, You will never be able to replace the one you lost but you can make a new friend. If you get a very young kitten you can become mama to it. It will be close to you. Feed it cuddle it love it … I have raised kittens from birth. I have fond memories of all my cat friends. Yet I always have room for a new friend.
2007-12-15 13:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are correct. Getting a kitten would not be a replacement, because nothing can replace a loved one. If you get a new best friend after you break up with your old one, it is not a replacement. You make more room in your heart for one. That's the same thing. You make more room in your heart for a new addition to your family.
I would suggest adopting a kitten, or, a sweet older cat who doesn't have much longer to be adopted, from your local animal shelter.
Good luck and best wishes. :]
2007-12-15 13:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Rose Willow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you get a kitten you will have to go through all the training again maybe you should try a small dog already trained you can try the human society closest to you and they have them all identified as to wether they are gentle or not also you can do more with the dog than with a cat. Besides it may not be a good idea to get a cat as a replacement to your beloved cat because you can never replace him/her that is also why you should try a dog
2007-12-15 13:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by geturmind_right 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. If you feel your are emotionally ready to welcome a new companion, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. However, if you are not ready, don't.
Instead of a kitten (because it's not really kitten season, and adults never get homes), why not consider adopting an adult cat? They already have their personality established, and rarely are adopted. Check out your local humane society (for about $100 or so your kitty will have all their shots, and will be fixed).
So sorry to hear about your loss, and best of luck on whichever decision you make :)
2007-12-15 13:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sparkley Star 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry for your loss, I know how it feels to loose a beloved pet.
I think you should give yourself a bit of time to get over the death of this cat before you get another, and when you do make sure you go to a reputable breeder. Your local vet will probably be able to point you in the right direction.
2007-12-15 13:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Witch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it would be a good idea. It is nice to have a pet around. It would be nice if you got it from the humane society or other animal shelter. The staff members at the humane society (at least the one in my town) are very good at helping people pick the right pet.
2007-12-15 13:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ignatius J. Reilly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋