Well, my bf keeps arugeing with me about stupid things about like... he says i dont care for him and i do care alot about him...
I show him how much i care
He just keeps saying i dont.. i really like him and all and i dont wanna loose him.
Can anyone help me out?
2007-12-15 05:04:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you guys should sit down and talk then if that dosent work try therapy. i just talk it out with my bf.
2007-12-15 05:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by sadiqsuliman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have stupid arguments with my boyfriend, too...
It could be considered a good sign that there aren't bigger problems to argue about. However, I know it's not nice.
Just make a real effort, and let him know how much of an effort you're making. Actually tell him, "I really want this to work. Tell me how to make it better."
At the end of the day, if a person changes you in a negative way, clearly that person isn't good for you. Don't lose sight of who you are, but make sure the communication is good and that BOTH of you are making the effort.
Good luck, sweetie :).
2007-12-15 05:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by lauren_1992 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's very hard to leave a relationship when you're in love with someone, or even really like them. But if he is putting guilt trips on you or is being manipulative then it's probably time for you to move on. Unhealthy relationships will bring you down in the end, and will also bring him down. Take my advice - it's not worth being in a relationship with someone you don't get along with. There are many fish in the sea and you will find someone eventually that you get along with great and will understand that you care about them! Guard your heart in the meantime and don't end up in a co-dependant relationship.
2007-12-15 05:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jayme C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just trying to guilt you into going an extra base with him or doing it more often. One of the best qualities of any person is the ability to agree to disagree. It requires you to show some patience and actually look at an issue from another point of view. If he can't do that, there might be bigger issues afoot.
2007-12-15 05:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a secret invite to some place and when he comes it will be romantic and kiss him passionately enough to show him that you DO care!!!! tell him exactlly what you told us...
Well, you keep arugeing with me about stupid things about like... you say i dont care for you and i do care alot about you!...
I show you how much i care
you just keep saying i dont.. i really like you and all and i dont wanna loose you! you have to believe me! or something like thatt
2007-12-15 05:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tina_a.m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already proved him wrong, there's nothing much you can do. If he keeps on doing this, you probably should just end the relationship.
If you really don't want the relationship to end, the best bet is to spend more time with him, or talk to him about this.
Good luck!
2007-12-15 05:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 09:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by venturino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi my best advice is sit him down one day and talk to him tell him how you really feel i had that problem with my boyfriend once if you are capable start crying in the process he'll get back to his senses trust me all boys hate to see their chics cry so when you explain to him and he sees you crying he'll understand how hurt you are and he'll cut of the arguments i promise take care. Luvz Enny
2007-12-15 05:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the arguments about? Is it because you won't do something he wants you to?
Ask him point blank: Do you want to be with me?
You must be prepared for the answer. Let your brain not your heart decide your course of action.
2007-12-15 05:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by dale h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is using you for his own benefits. How do you show him that you care? Stop having sex with him, then you'll see how much HE cares about YOU.
2007-12-15 05:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Pancake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one who is mature enough to know better and show you the respect you deserve. He is basically just attention seeking.
2007-12-15 05:07:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋