My GF doesn't care if I talk to girls. But she knows that I think a girl at work is hot. I would dump my GF if I knew Tia would go out with me. When my GF had the day off, I went to lunch with Tia. She isn't even interested in me. She's a tease. She is 2 mos pregnant and has man problems. I like being around her. I hardly ever have sex with my GF because I think about being with Tia. She has tig o bitties. All the guys want her. I don't want a relationship from her, tho. My GF knows all this. When my GF told me to watch what I say and do around Tia so that the wrong impression isn't made, I told her that if she didn't shut the F, I would dump her for Tia. Needless to say, if my GF found out I went to lunch with Tia, she would be on my butt about it. I am not married or commited so I can do whatever I want. And I didn't cheat. So I don't feel like I should have to tell my GF anything or defend myself should she ask me about it. Any advice, bros?
2007-12-15 04:59:36 · 25 answers · asked by morethanenough 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your gf isn't a very high priority for you. Why don't you just end your relationship with her and spare her the risk of you finding someone better.
2007-12-15 05:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Psylence 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG if this is true shame on you. How dare you treat women like that! If I was your GF I would dump you and say good luck with Tia. O yea and way to be Tia's Bit#h! Im glad she is using you to talk to someone about her problems.
Have a nice day.
2007-12-15 05:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ashely85 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, there's the Tia thing. Sounds like a fantasy that's going nowhere. Kinda like a fold-out spread - great to look at and dream about but out of reach and we know it.
The thing I'm havin' heartburn with is how you're treating your lady! "shut the F up" ???! "Dump my GF if I knew Tia..."??? What's with all that, man? It sounds to me like you aren't really all that into this gal...
Since you asked for advice, here we go - either get "all in" with your lady and treat her like a queen (she's a gift in your life y'know), or quit stringing her along and dissing her.
2007-12-15 05:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Would you expect to be told if she went to lunch with a guy she had the same feelings for as you have for Tia?
2007-12-15 05:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by cato___ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all, break up with your girlfriend because you are wasting her time with your undiscovered fear of being alone. If you are comfortable with going out and lusting over other girls than that is a pretty sad thing to do to someone, even if she says it's "okay to talk to other girls".
by the way, that doesn't mean "lie to me and lust about other women behind my back and waste my freaking time pretending like you want to be with me"
Second, why the hell would you want to hook up with a girl that is two months pregnant with men problems? Are you like what, seriously, going to stick around and help raise her baby? Is she going to be hot as ever when she gains 30 pounds and has a kid?
2007-12-15 05:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy this g/f and b/f thing with ur girl sound like a joke u dont love ur girl and dont have feelings for her why stay with her if you know u dont love her and would dump her in a sec. ! just brak off this fake relation ship and ask the momma to be to go out if you love her more than ur fake G/f so yeah get a clue and ask the girl you love out and not the girl you know you dont love boy and be a man and dont be shy and ask that babys momma!
2007-12-15 05:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by <3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You girlfriend should leave your triffling ***. She is stupid for even staying with you. I hope this girl tia never gives you the time of day and your girlfriend leaves you for a guy two times better than you.
2007-12-15 05:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're an azol. If your gf puts up with you telling her to shut the f up or you'll dump her she is a ditz with low self esteem and you're both a couple of simpletons.
2007-12-15 05:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bastard. Why is she your girlfriend if you feel that way about her?! As far as I can tell, you are insensitive, uncaring, and rude. Guys only care about looks. You ARE committed. She is your girlfriend, and you are committed to care for her. Going to lunch with another girl you think is hot is just plain wrong!
2007-12-15 05:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rose Willow 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man does what a man wants to do! Tell that hoe to back the f-ck up if she doesn't want Tia riding you. But then again, she's pregnant as hell. I'd say back off both of them.
2007-12-15 05:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Steveo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋