people keep trying to seperate me and my boyfriend its really making me mad because i like him alot i guess you could say im popular and he's not but i dont think that really matters. what can i do to make it stop????? i cant help it that alot of guys like me. pleaseee help!!
thank you!
2007-12-15 04:36:47 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do not pay attention to what other people think. try not to be influenced by their negative attitude. it is good that a popular girl is going out with a non-popular guy. it shows that your feelings for him go beyond the usual "i'm popular, my boo should be popular too". your boo is a lucky guy. not what happens to your relationship is now in your hands. show a little maturity by paying attention to your boo and not what other people say...it is between you too only... if you get influenced by your friends against this guy, they i guess your feelings for him are not that serious after all.
2007-12-17 11:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by philosophical beaver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a problem like that when I was younger. I was the popular one and he was the one all the guys hated because he started fights and was a rocker rather then a rapper.
It doesnt matter what other people want you to do it matterwhat you want. Oppisites attract. Just tell them you really like him and they are being annoying-lol. And that if they really cared about you being happy then they just let it be. Unless this guy is a total jerk-stay with him :o)
2007-12-15 04:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Gee, its Bree! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let the haters hate. Don't let them influence you and your boyfriend, becuase they're not worth it at all. If somebody is trying to break you up, say something, because they'll eventually wise up, and see that you too aren't breaking up anytime soon. Stay strong, and people will hopefully get out of your business. And make it clear that, he's the only one your focused on.
Best of Luck!
=)
2007-12-15 04:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't let others do that but if your boyfriend is letting this happen has well then keep talking to him and keep liking him so that way he will know that you are all about you and him... and i think that it is good that you have others that like you it should be better for him cause he is with you and you are the one hugging and kissing him so just don't pay no mind to the others and keep pushing trough with your boyfriend and your work
2007-12-15 04:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. People are like that, they can't stand to see people happy, so they try like hell to mess that up. If you and your boyfriend are happy then forget about what people are doing. So what if he is not popular who cares, life is to short to be worry about such stupid stuff, be happy and enjoy each others company.
2007-12-15 04:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by dark12642003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i feel your pain. But you should tell them to back off because you are taken now and they should understand that you relle like this guy. Believe me my boyfriend is the same he just moved here and we have been going out and everyone tells him that he is out of my league, but hes not hes perfect. Just dont listen to them, this is your life not theres. Best of luck.
2007-12-15 04:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by ~amanda rickie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw other people. you should be happy with the guy that you like a lot. popularity shouldn't matter in a relationship so ignore the fact you're popular and he isn't.
2007-12-15 04:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by 8 mile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After awhile he'll be popular too by association. It won't matter anymore, it's all just a kind of initiation.
2007-12-15 04:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it makes you mad but people are always gonna have something to say. You just have to ingore it and don't let it change the way you feel about him.
2007-12-15 04:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by cocoa♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all that matters is that you love him!!! seriously, a buch of hi-skewl people arent gunna be on your *** when your 40. there are even a ton of songs about this... so like, youll live.
2007-12-15 04:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tina_a.m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋