I have worn a gold chain and crucifix for as long as i can remember.at least 1/2 of my life i am now 27 and have serious doubts about everything about organized religion. I do believe in having faith(although not sure about my own) but to a certain degree i feel like a hypocrite for continuing to wear this. should i continue? should i save it for possibe future use, or just sell it at the pawn shop(it is gold). also , it was a gift from my father so i have to take that into account.
2007-12-15 03:39:34 · 33 answers · asked by jay z 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I've been an atheist since I was 12, but I still like crucifixes. I don't know what it is about them - they just appeal to me. Probably the Catholic upbringing. Anyway, I guess it just depends on your own personal associations. As a gift from your father alone, I'd keep it. You don't have to wear it all the time.
2007-12-15 03:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well, what you could do is take it off and store it in a special place until you become clear about what it is that you believe. I don't think doubt makes you a hypocrite, however. If you were proclaiming great faith and wearing the crucifix and then having these doubts then I would say that might fall into the category of being a hypocrite. Don't sell it. I used to work in jewelry, they treat gold as scrap metal and you would probably end up getting $12 for an item that would cost well over $100 if you bought it new. Also, sentimental value is important. Even if you doubt maybe one day you could pass it on to a child of yours or a niece or nephew. Many blessings to you.
Me: Buddhist
2007-12-15 03:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Yogini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very personal decision I'm sure. But i would just like to say that Jesus is no longer on the cross, he is now seated on a throne at the right hand of the father. So maybe a chain with an image of a man seated on a throne would be more appropriate..But whatever you do, keep your faith, cause God the Father is real so is is Son our Lord Jesus...
2007-12-15 03:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessary.
Just continue with it.
No harm done.
If it's the practices of the family.
That should be fine.
Just that confusion was created back in the past without anyone being aware of it.
The practices had made one a "Betterman" out of it..
So just keep it and continue with it.
What you know from here.
Is the answer in trying to solve the mess in Iraq for the good of makind in the creation of peace on earth goodwill to men.
The practices is a two-way communication system.
Without anyone being aware of it.
Only with the missing key can unlock the mystery.
So in following the church.
There no harm done with it.
Luke 9.55-56
What do you think?
2007-12-15 04:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should above all give it time. The steps shouldn't be doubt your religion, then get rid of your crucifix. Between the 2 should be prayer and thoughtful study. Even the Saints at one time or another doubted their religion. This may pass, but you have to be strong enough to not let go so easily. If you do decide to get rid of it, please do so with respect. Maybe give it to someone who hasn't lost Faith.
2007-12-15 03:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it if it's sentimental for you, I probably would if I had worn it for half my life because it's been there with you through a lot of **** and since your father gave it to you. Do whatever feels right, try taking it off for a day or something and see how ya feel. Good luck.
2007-12-15 03:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by misses_DNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cross is a symbol, doesnt mean you believe or not no more than a fish on your bumper sticker means you follow Christ! If youve accepted Christ into your life dont worry he will reveal himselve to you you will come back its his promise! Its up to you what you do with it, If it were me I would keep it someday you wont have your father may be the most powerfull memory you have! God Bless
2007-12-15 03:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cross was a gift from your father and represented your beliefs at that time. Put it away, it is a precious memory. When your father is gone you will deeply appreciate this symbol of his love and care for you. Then it will serve a different purpose, you will remember him with love and gratitude.
2007-12-15 03:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is from your father. Give it to a relative, or save it.
To sell it, would be like getting "thirty pieces of silver."
You may feel different, later in life, and would never get that
one back when you are sixty. Keep it please.
You may have doubts about organized religion, but not about
Christ himself. ():-})>{+
2007-12-15 03:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pawn it, it's at least a family heirloom. The crucifix doesn't have to represent the church; you can still have
Christian beliefs and not belong to a Christian church. Ask youself how you feel about Christ, and then do with the crucifix as you feel is appropriate.
2007-12-15 03:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋