How did it go? Could you take a relationship with a much older woman seriously? Of course presume you think she is beautiful, hot, nice person, intelligent...and you click!! But you are a guy in your mid 20s and she is in her mid 40s (but looks no more than 30). What attracted you to her?
2007-12-15 01:45:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had a few...and they all looked good, and had a sense of worldliness about them. My first was when I was 16 and she was 36. It lasted for a summer, but that was enough. One of the best summers I ever had!
2007-12-15 01:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are concerning yourself with the issue, chances are that you want to take a relationship with a much older woman seriously. More importantly, though, can a much older woman take a relationship with you seriously? If your lady is in her 40's, why has she pursued a much younger man as yourself who is age appropriate of being her son? What is it about longer lived, more experienced men her own age that puts her off? Granted, physical attraction is not cut and dry, nor can it always be explained. Physical attraction alone is not always what motivates attraction to a particular demographic. Unfortunately, this particular circumstance is too unclear in its juvenile stages. My advice to you would be to not jump into a more intense romantic relationship with this woman, who I am sure is very nice, until you have both taken the time to court one another and find out if your interests and expectations for a romantic relationship really do mesh. This will help you to determine in which ways this attraction is sexual, emotional and mental in nature and you can take the time to evaluate the relationship to determine if it would be able to mature into a functional romance. After you have taken this analytical approach, don't hold on to it if you do not believe is appropriate for both you, but also do not push it away if you believe it has the potential to blossom into an honest and comfortable relationship.
2007-12-15 02:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right most guys find that girl when they are younger,but there is divorce so you have a hell of a chance. I believe the couples that get married young never last. You shouldn't worry about settling down until you are over 25. I think the higher maturity and your priorities are alot different. That's what helps in longterm relationships.
2016-05-24 01:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did once, but it was because a lost my own mother at a young age and I was looking for a mother figure. Many people suffer from separation anxiety rooted in their childhood.
You may not have any issues. It will be wise to write down on paper the answer to the following question: What is my motivate? What issues she may have, ex. divorced, ext.? Will I lived with her in old age?
You will be amazed what our "hearts" can reveal on paper.
2007-12-15 01:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mr G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thank>Unless you like the money she spends on you> But I'm a lot older and wouldn't date anyone older or even close to my age>young 1s are enough of a problem>Your call might be the best since sliced bread for you>
2007-12-15 01:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES ! Don't take it seriously, but have a great time. This type of relationship is only for sex - you are her boy toy that she can proudly show off to her friends and be sceen with in public. WOW - A COUGAR. You lucky dog. See if she has friends her age. Keep it rolling !
LOL
2007-12-15 01:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Elliott J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no but i would love to im 20 and would love and awsmoe 40 year old to chill with and well get to know cuz some of them women got it goin on in the physical and personality department..i need both not just one
2007-12-15 01:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out wiyh a 40 yr old woman once. We used to wander around Hyde Park and every now and then she would put her arms around me and we would cuddle.
Mind you I was in a pram and she was my nanny
2007-12-15 01:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number. I've had several relationships with younger men.
2007-12-15 02:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jules 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes Iwas 21 she was 50 & i learnt one hell of a lot that contributed to my future happiness
2007-12-15 01:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋