Guys whats the difference between a girl you want to tap and a girl you want to date?
Is the girl you'd 'tap' less attractive than the girl you'd date and therefore only good enough for sex?
Why do guys pursue me only for sex? I mean why bother pursuing someone so much if you are only after sex?
I have had guys pursue me for weeks when all they wanted was sex.
2007-12-15 01:33:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
An explaination please?
2007-12-15 01:34:22 · update #1
Well first you cant just give it to them, i mean i know there are guys out there that say and do whatever it takes to get a girl in bed, and its sad. I believe that mostly guys do the "tap" thing so they can just add it to their list, and thats probably the same guys that wont date for a ong time, cuz they getting what they want and dont have to worry bout seeing the girl. I would rather date, cuz i cant just do it and leave her and never see her again. Just my 2 cents
2007-12-15 04:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Randy W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is such an interesting question.. I have had the same thing happen to me so many times and have no idea why.. It could be a number of things, maybe we go for the wrong guys, maybe we're too nice, maybe we act too keen. I think the early stages of meeting and liking a guy is very crutual, it could either turn into a relationship or them only wanting to sleep with you. Let them know that you are only interested in relationships and nothing on the side, try not to get attached too soon, try not to call them you should always wait for them to call you and i think you have to play the chasing game cos guys only want what they cant have. Anyway that's what I think good luck finding the right answer!
2007-12-15 02:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are commonly very different in their sex:relationship priorities. Women may ask why have sex with somebody if a relationship isn't in the cards. Many men don't understand why one would want to be friends with a woman if sex isn't in the cards.
What's more, men's desire for sex goes up even further because it's an ego thing; i.e., the pure pleasure isn't all that motivates us.
You're incorrectly combining two questions into one. "Why do men want to have sex with me?" and "Why do some of those men not want to have a relationship with me?" don't have a lot to do with each other.
As men grow older, an ever larger fraction of them are exceptions to what I'm saying (and another fraction of them get ever better at PRETENDING to be exceptions). But my points still stand.
2007-12-15 07:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are visual, sexual people. When they see a girl, they are thinking sex.....not hmm I would like a relationship with that girl. But it's how u respond to them that makes their decision. Any girl who sleeps with a guy on the first night they rarely ever consider them for girlfriend material. Men are like hunters......they love the pursuit, and if they can catch their prey easily, then it's no longer fun and there is no challenge there. They really don't have any respect for girls who give it up easily, and that is not the type of girl they want a future with.
2007-12-15 02:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because to guys, sex is a desire so strong. And it feels great.
There's nothing wrong with sex. If you want more, then you need to find a guy who wants more too.
2007-12-15 01:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably look bitchy... that is why you attract all the wrong guys... is it the way you talk, dress ? change.
2007-12-15 01:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by HK Idol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋