I have come back to London after living in vegas for a few weeks, because my sister has anorexia and i came to help her, My friends took me out to some nightclubs and i met this girl, she was my age and really rocked a good party and then i ended up at her place and we had a one night stand, we met up the next day, and the next day, then today, i saw her and this man and this little girl, i knew she had a brother becuase i saw pictures in the apartment and i had asked her who it was and she had said it was her brother, but than they sat down at a coffee shop and he kissed her really intensly and i'm going back to the states in 5 days, should i just ignore it, or should i say something! i feel so stupid i noticed a ring but i never questioned it because it was on the wrong hand! but when i saw her today she had changed it around!!
I'm fed up of all my relationships ending up so F****ed up!
Please help, should i tell her, or ignore it!
2007-12-15 01:21:48 · 32 answers · asked by Love_Me_Jaffa_X_O_X 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn, that must hurt!
Ignore her, she is probably just bored with her married life because with a baby you can't have much partner time! And where was her husband and baby when you hooked up with her? And with the photo's aslong as there weren't any intermate ones then she could say it was her dad and anyone could be fooled!
I know how you feel with the relationship thing being F***ed up! i've been there done that but i learnt you have just got to wait a bit i've answered your other questions, and your ex-fiance may have shook you up abit but don't let the bad relationships hold you down, and don't feel stupid the only stupid thing that could have happened was the fact she didn't tell you, think about her husband, she will have to live with the guilt she cheated on him but with a woman,
Love Nannon
*Keep going girl you can do it!*
2007-12-15 01:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs Alex Turner. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not quite sure where you want to be. You say you are not a mad woman/have a boyfriend/had a one-nighter with a girl who is in a straight relationship. Doesn't seem that things are going too well for you. You are 29 years old and need to sort out your life before it is too late. You need some happiness and maybe get some help back in Las Vegas.
2007-12-15 01:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by stratmanreturns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it! Just don't get emotionally attached. I think the difference between a girl with class and a sl@t is all in how she thinks of and carries herself. Also a sl@t has sex with a guy to try to get him to like her. A girl with class has sex with a guy because she wants it and so does he. What is wrong w/ getting some pleasure even if you might not see this guy again? Just use protection, I hope you are already on birth control and have a good time. I want you to do it.
2016-05-24 01:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You saw the truth you know what is really going on, the husband has no idea what is going on. He thinks everything is going well. so you have to ask yourself are you willing to tear apart the portrayal he has of his life? You get to leave in a few days and never have to think about it again, if you spoke up he would have to think about it the rest of his life. I do think you should confront the girl and tell her what she is doing is F***ed up, and could end up hurting allot of people to include her husband and son (The two she should care about the most).
2007-12-15 01:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by militaryclark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few days of "one night stands" doesn't constitute a relationship.
If she is married, unfornuately it isn't about you no matter how you may be feeling about it. Chalk it up to experience--you're not going to gain anything from confronting her except maybe a headache. Better luck next time.
2007-12-15 01:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Edenia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Personally, I'd chalk that up as a bad mistake and try to learn from it. There's a lot of wisdom in not doing a one-night hook-up...for example, you know nothing about the person.
There's really nothing you can do about it, because truthfully she'll burn her own bridge and there's no need for you to be vengeful.
2007-12-15 01:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You're going back to the States soon. You had some fun, just think about those good times.
2007-12-15 01:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You thank to God. You were in a wrong hand. I do not think that you have courage to say her, but if you have, you may ventilate yourself. At least you will come out of yes or no of saying, an ambivalent situation through which you are passing.
2007-12-15 01:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by papasays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah u should tell her if he going to play u like that then of course u should tell her never miss those little things that signal the person is married plus its her fault if u decide to tell her because she should have never cheated i would get her in so much trouble with her man or supposely "brother" and when ur finished hollla at me
2007-12-15 01:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by moesha l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately don't say something. Move on. It's not worth her husband finding out about you, especially if they have a kid. It was a one night stand, and you shouldn't try to take it any further.
2007-12-15 01:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋