Is she playing with me?

Question

My gf is mad at me because i was speaking to my ex and women on myspace when I said i didn't. I never dated any of these women . just talked. But of course she get mad. talks to someone on line and goes out for coffee. She tells me that she need to think about and she needs space. I tell her I love her so much and will do anything for her. Of course she say, if you loved me so much you wouldn't do what you did. I said , your right and I wish I can take it back, but I truely love you. Last night I gave her a call because I couldn't sleep. We talked , she asked me the same question. I should go out with these women or my ex, I said I want only her, no one else. But if you love me you would do what you did. The phone conversation, we did'nt scream or yell. It was getting a little late. She told me it's late, call me tomorrow. Ok, what time. in the morning, afternoon. She said whatever time. I called around 8:30 am . more than once, didn't pick up. is she playing with me . I left messages

Answer 1

I don't think she is playing with you, and I don't think she is jealous, at least not without reason, you lied to her.

The question is, are you playing with her or playing yourself by trying to be in a relationship when it's obvious you still have need to wander?

Don't keep her just so that you have someone until you find someone...Be a man, be honest...

Answer 2

She only very jealous on u because for her is if u love her u only can with her even talk.. maybe she think ur life n all bout u only can do with her n no with others girl.. even go out have tea with friends or what.. some girls will think n do like that.. she might only angry.. try to have a good talk.. if she love u then she might will understand u n wont angry tat much.. but couples that doenst mean each other didnt have their space.. they have but they should know the limited.. n didnt do anything wrong or bad behind their lover.. so each other should trust their own lover and be understanding.. if not, there wont be have a everlasting relation and wont be stay longer...

Answer 3

dont play ur self 1st of all if shes looking 4 little things like that then just maybe shes playin u i talk to men all the time online on the phone and in public places but my man does the same thing but with women the reason we dont freak out is because we love each other and we noe that we wouldnt do anything to betray each others love or trust u should tell ur girlfriend to try it if she really loves u

Answer 4

Yes I think she wanna test u. Just stay with ur point. Say to her that u r saying for the last time and say her sorry. If she doesn't cares bout u just stop talking with her for 2 days and move with another girl. She will come to u and say sorry.

Answer 5

women depend on trust in a relationship and she feels you broke it things probably would not have been so bad if you told the truth but if she is already so easily swayed to go out on a date she must not have been that into the relationship anyway so just move on

Answer 6

I don't know. You lied to her, and lying is such a big betrayal people often overlook...unfortunately for you, your girlfriend isn't one of those people. You should realize how close to messing things up you are, then do whatever you have to to turn this around before it's too late.

Answer 7

shes tryign to make you jelous its just a phase in the relationshipp. everyone has ups and donws dont let this one tihng hurt your relatonship make sure you odnt tslk to those girls anymore. and maybe you could show he that you dont.

Answer 8

She might be still sleep. But try all day today, then again tomorrow. If you don't hear nothing, then worry.

Answer 9

She feels hurt and cannot trust you, and now has doubts and mixed feelings, you will have to be patient.

Answer 10

it's cuz you lied----lieing is the evil of all evils---geez man get a grip