I have been told by friends that I am pretty. Not drop dead gorgeous but I'm deffinatly not ugly. I think I'm average looking. But whenever I go places with my friends there are guys obviously, they look at me and my friends "check us out" I guess?? If I'm using that word right.
But they always go over to other random girls. I had my first bf in 4th grade, if that really is one which it sorta was i guess.....but since then...nothing. I dont throw myself out there at them like an easy girl but what ......is it me?
2007-12-15 01:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by yeahrightlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks guys, i'm just scared that I might come off as a slutty girl if i try to flirt with random guys.
2007-12-15 01:17:25 · update #1
Do not become an easy girl what ever you do. As men will not respect you and treat you like trash.
You must be really beautiful and such a good girl. Guys only really go for good girls when they have matured and after a relationship or a girl to take home to mum, also a girl to marry.
I use to think the same, why don't guys approach me? They use to approach the average looking girl. Guy friend said that i intimidate guys. But the truth is guys my age (20's) where only after the easy girls so they can have a good time with them and not have a relationship with them.
Heard a few stories and realised that when guys would go out with the easy girls - sleep with them, they got what they wanted and the got bored as well as losing respect for them.
Just be yourself, do not become easy, the right guy will come along one day when you least expect it. When you finally meet a good guy, you realise that he was worth the wait.
2007-12-15 01:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Glamourous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adolescence is one of the most difficult times in peoples lives. Add to this time the complexities of relationships and a person can be overwhelmed. Young men for the most part do not know how to form real relationships at this time in their lives. Given time to mature some of them will realize that the best people to have a long term relationship with are not the most obvious. I do realize that the need to be needed is strong, but I would urge you to take your time and wait for the right boy to catch up with you in their level of maturity.
2007-12-15 09:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Snook Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a guy.
gorgeous... told that by countless girls.
And i get looks from girls all the time (in fact i've got looks from almost all the girls in this Cyber Cafe now).
But the problem is all of these looks haven't resulted in half as many dates.
What i'm trying to say is... Guys not looking at you or looking at you isn't really what you should worry about. Work on your personality, become sincerely happy with yourself, then let the men catch up with the kind of person you have become.
2007-12-15 09:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by as_a_youngthief_in_da_night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are drawn to a girl with confidence. If you are walking into a room thinking that you're not the prettiest girl in the room, you're putting that vibe out there. Try finding something that you can do to feel better about yourself (an outfit you look great in, a new hairstyle, etc.). If you feel good about yourself, other people will be drawn to you!! : )
2007-12-15 09:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by ~Gemini~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl the right guy will come but try not to put ur self out of the game b4 it even starts put ur selfout there but not 2 much were ur a easy type. every girl goes through this even me but i put my self out there but keep in mind boyz are sometimes shy 2 so u can make da1 move flirt a little get a little girly with it
2007-12-15 09:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by moesha l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like slutty, Im-so-sure-of-myself girls more than pretty ones. idk why, but boys are all weird. If ur a shy person, try to be more out there (like talk to them). It happened to me and it definitely works
2007-12-15 09:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just not seeing whats really happening, guys are shy when they like you.
smile an say hi , you will be surprized
2007-12-15 09:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by rad53m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Contact me through my YahooAnswers profile.
2007-12-15 09:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by ms_beehayven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that some i think i just say no
because i am in indonesia,jogjakarta.
2007-12-15 09:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Michael S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋