I broke up with my boyfriend. i don't like him anymore. but one day i was at my lockers getting ready to go home adn he got down on his knees, looked at the floor and begged for me to take him back. he still likes me, but i see him flirting with another girl. i don't like him. should i take hhim back? plez help.
2007-12-15 00:43:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He flirted that girl but maybe that girls was not interested in him that's why he came back to beg you. So, he just wants you for back up. Try to stay away from him, remember that a cheater is always a cheater.
2007-12-15 00:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, there was and is a reason why you broke up with him in the first place. Remember that.
Do not take him back, you are much more happier now, you deserve someone much, much better for you and your children.
Do not take him back!!!!
There is another one out there, do not show him you are desperate to take him back, show him that you can get any other man out there, he is not the one and only man like he thinks he is.
A lot of men like to make the women in thier lives think that the women can't do any better than what they have, well, girlfriend, they can, and so can you!!!!!!!!!
Be tough, be strong, and do not go back, look forward and slam that door behind you with him in it!!!!!!
2007-12-15 08:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is kiddy drama but I'll tell you something I've known for along time. Listen to your heart, seriously. If you don't love this person, and you don't even like them, don't settle for them because they want you. Don't allow them to trick you into being with them when they really don't care about you.
People boys and girls, men and women alike, want what they can't have, and they get it they will want something else. Some people call dating a game but it doesn't have to be. Take control of your own life and just be honest with yourself.
Do you like him? Do you want him around? Ask the right question of yourself and make the only choice that feels right to you. NO one else can answer the question of your heart.
2007-12-15 08:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Allan Strange 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't take him back. Obviously since you broke up with him, there was a problem (and you don't like him anymore anyway)...so I can't think of any reasons why you should get back together with him, besides out of pity that he is now girlfriendless...and that's not a very good reason is it?
2007-12-15 08:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nikita22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have already answered your own question! you don't like him so why take him back? There is also no trust there as you wouldn't be concerned about him flirting with another girl.
Enjoy yourself and listen to what your heart is telling you .x
2007-12-15 08:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by madmoo0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your saying you do not like him but you would like advise on whether or not to get back with him. You have just answered your question... If you do not like someone you stay away from them so stay away from him. Dont get back to gether with him.
2007-12-15 08:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't like him - just because he begs doesn't mean you have to say yes. Head for the hills!
2007-12-15 08:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by pinky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you see him flirting with another girl you'll have competition, and he might cheat on you. So, flirt with another guy and see what happens
2007-12-15 08:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Andre Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like him. End of story. In other words, keep moving on.
2007-12-15 08:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh... you said it right there - you don't like him. Why would you get back with him? Let him go and find someone that you do like.
2007-12-15 08:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by dcsg8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋