well im 19. i lost my virginity 4 months ago to my bf and ever since i have not gotten my period, i never used protection, but he said he did not go in me, i know you put it all together and its like how stupid can a girl be?! but i've taken 5 preg. tests and they all say negative. yet i have not had my period for 4 months now is this normal?? im realy scared and dont know what to do help or any advice will be appreciated thanks =)
2007-12-14 19:53:47 · 9 answers · asked by brella 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Firstly CALM DOWN.
If u have been worrying bout this since u had sex then this could be the reason u have no period. Stress can stop ur periods.
Secondly if i was u i would stop wasting money on pregnancy tests as they are not always accurate and go to ur gp. Dont worry everything will be completely confidential and they can give u advice too.
And thirdly maybe u should consider the contraceptive pill if u are now sexually active.
Good luck and i hope ur bf is supportive whatever the outcome X
2007-12-14 23:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by ollieoops 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if no other signs or symptoms show pregnancy such as mood alterations, sensitive nipples, lactation, than you should be fine. Some people have bizarre hormones where a pregnancy test may not show what is really going on. The only 100 percent way of knowing is to see a doctor. They can administer a blood pregnancy test. This will tell you if you are incubating or not. At about 4 months past, if you are pregnant you are going to need to go through an ultrasound soon, so the quicker you see a doctor the better.
2007-12-15 07:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would make an appointment with your local doctor or sexual health centre to find out what is causing your period to be delayed. They will probably do some blood work or order an ultrasound to find out what is going on down there.
It could still be pregnancy but you should be showing other symptoms by now and at least one of the tests should have shown + by now too.
I wouldn't panic just yet until you have seen a doctor about it. Try finding a female one if that makes you more comfortable. Have you started having pap smears yet??? You really should get one done when you see the doctor. Definately get a woman to do that for you if its your first one. Its nothing bad or painful just a little disconcerting the first time.
best of luck
2007-12-15 05:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to miss period for few months at a time before or too many period in a month. I just had hormone problem but medication corrected my problems. Try to go see your obgyn. Sometime when you worry too much about pregnancy and stressed out, that caused problems too. If you took pregnancy test 5 times and all negative, you should be fine.
2007-12-15 04:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by caliluvsun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. If you haven't already, I'd say take different kinds of pregnancy tests to make sure one isn't just inaccurate. If it keeps saying you're not pregnant, then you should visit your doctor; both for an accurate test... and if you're not pregnant, it's probably not a good thing that you haven't had your period for 4 months so you can get that dealt with and figure out why.
2007-12-15 04:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by RoTpFerD97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not had a period in four months WHY on earth wouldn't you seek advice from a doctor before now ...you say you didn't use protection but he never went in you ..it only takes a little swimmer to get there whether he went inside you or not... you need to see your doctor sooner rather than later there has to be a reason why you have not had your period in all this time...
2007-12-15 05:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...I'd go to a clinic after taking so many tests. I remember freaking out about the same thing several weeks ago. I prayed for my period (not really, but I missed it terribly...for once) I got the worse cramps ever the day I got it, but I was the happiest gal on the block! My eatings habits aren't as great as they should be, I'd take that into consideration too.
2007-12-15 04:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Etcetera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a doctor you can't be for sure
if you just got ur very first period of this year or started this year it could be that ur body hasn't planned out a cycle of when it happpens and when it doesn't.... Have you learned about HUMAN GROWTH DEVELOPMENT YET? in my packet it says the first year might not me steadly planned out for your body ....OR ur going to have a baby which if it's his germ in the kid 2 he going to take so charges .. or at least help take care of the kid.....
ONE Thing How do you know If he went in or not????
You don't know he could deny it couldn't he???
2007-12-15 04:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
to make sure go to obgyne and ask all the questions that bothers you..that's the best think you can do for now.
and use protection next time.
2007-12-15 04:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by miss x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋