i am shocked! what do i do!?

Question

i am so shocked!! but i think i need to start from the beginning
we have a mongrel and a few other dogs.
this mongrel is the choice of my fiance. he is very shy with men, will not come to my fiance, trusts me, won't eat when my fiance is there and pees himself when my fiance gets too close when he feels unsure.
another thing is the dog is very possessive aggressive. meaning food, space and toys.
yesterday it went all crazy. the mongrel attacked my poodle and then my fiance grabbed the mongrel by the scruff of the neck (he is now 8 months old) picked him about 40cm off the floor and threw him about 1 m. the dog landed funny and he is limping a little now.
i had a talk with my fiance & he says he is sorry but sorry is not enough!!!!! i think he should give up the dog as he has done too much damage & the dog is just stressed now!
but he doesn't want to!! i don't get it! how can i convince him?!

i almost feel like reporting him to the animal control here! i am just so shocked!
it's my fiance. but now i don't trust him with the dogs at all.
i almost feel like i know now why all the dogs always sit around me and don't wanna come to him and cower when he is around!
but i mean he is my fiance.
he says we should give up the dog that came last, which is the poodle that keeps getting attacked.
but i think that would just avoid the main issue!
the relationship he has with the mongrel! i am just so shocked!!!!

he said he was teaching the dog a lesson because he attacked my poodle but that is no way of teaching the dog a lesson!!!
what kind of a blimming stupid backward way of thinking is that right? i
really dunno what to do!

i brought him to the vet. they gave him some anti-inflamatories. he is doing better now.
the dog does listen to me but his attacking is due to his past i think.
he was abandoned and left to starve so with food i get it but we went to behaviorists, trainers etc and they say this dog is not suitable for a home. he is too scared and i think my fiance is just scaring him more!

Answer 1

I am shocked too... People who are mean to animals are also often mean to people.. I would make him an x-fiance and pretty quick too.

Answer 2

Firstly, since the dog is still limping a day later, it needs to be checked by a vet. If you can't manage that, you both should be reported for animal cruelty. Secondly, I agree that the dog that arrived last should go. That seems like common sense to me. The so-called 'mongrel' should probably go too, since he's aggressive and you apparently don't know how to train that tendency out of him.
Maybe you need to find a new home for your fiance as well. Sounds like he has issues.

Answer 3

What do you think is going to happen to you or your child when you do something that upsets the guy? Do you want your children growing up in fear, cowering like this dog does? RUN and be glad you got away from the guy. Then call animal control to rescue the dog.

Answer 4

He's a control nut(man,not the dog).
The dog is where it is starting and where will it end?With knocking the crapolla out of you in time is what I think.
Anyone who would mistreat an animal is scum.
You have too many dogs now to give any of them proper training.
Better wise up before you marry this fool.

Answer 5

That is so shocking.I would not have him with my dogs if he treated them that way. I get he is your fiance but he needs to learn how to handle pups that are 8 months old and dogs in general. For the pup his leg might be dislocated or have muscle pain. To get the two pups to get along, the mongrel seems to be the "bully" of the two, so just put them out on different times every once in awhile give them a meeting son they will be like siblings. It workes for me. Hope your pup is better.

Answer 6

Uh, your fiance sounds very out of control. Abusing animals is psychotic behavior normally associated by people that truly need help/ anger management. If he's not afraid to abuse an animal, then he's probably not afraid to abuse a person. Most serial killers have animal torture/ abuse in thier backgrounds. My advice is to stay the hell away from him before he starts throwing you around.

Answer 7

For first i don't like some one that throw a dog.That should really hurt him bring your 8 month old dog to the vet,and please do report this to the authority.Why does people hurt Innocent little dogs why ?This little baby dog has to be surround with loving people.When i hear about things like that i just feel to vomit,cause that really hurt my feeling,and don't forget this little puppy is Innocent you no.What will he do to children's just think about it sorry i don't believe this man has a heart or even feeling.And please don't say the dog is a mongrel he is like any dogs.

Answer 8

Dogs have a very good sence as to who is good and who is bad. That should answer your question.
It will not matter what he does to try to get the dog to like him it will not happen.
Give the nice dog away if you want to stay in this house, give it to a dogs home where it will find someone who loves it.
It sounds as though you have too many dogs already and they are all fighting for attention. Dogs are pack animals so be careful they don't all gang up one day.

Answer 9

If he wants to keep this dog, you both need to go and see a highly respectable dog trainer and behaviorist. It sounds to me that you both are struggling to get a grasp on what it is this dog needs to flourish. Please don't wait, make an appt. and start fixing the problems.

Answer 10

Don't like the sound of that. What next he starts slapping you around and throwing you around? That does not sound good at all. Sounds like more going on with him than just his rough treatment of the dogs.
He sounds a little on the abusive side, and from the sounds of it, it will start with you sooner or later as well.
His treatment of the dogs might just be a preview of how he is going to end up treating you.
You might seriious think about hitting the silk and bailing out of that relationship and fast.

Answer 11

well only if the dog is trying to hurt people give him away but if he is not well he is ur animal (dog) but maybe you should have a talk with ur fiance again.