im 18 he's 24
and we've been going out for 2 months now..
i know he's preety serious with me and he always likes to spend time with me..
Me, im that kind of person who like to have a little space from time to time,..and i have told hi dat.
in the morning..Ok 1 day some of the guys(which he knows to and we've hung around with)..asked me if i wanted to hang out,..so i did. and i tried calling him but he wouldnt pick up.so i just went. then around 11pm..i was still with the guys playin pool. he called me and while i was asking how his day went and he just hung up on me. Later on he txt me sayin==
==why u like one of them? then go ahead! dont f**ing call me!Its over...==
what the hell is that?!?!
Why did he break up with me without hearing my side??
2007-12-14 16:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by db 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
our relationship was goin soo well before this happend. i just dont understand it...
2007-12-14 17:02:30 · update #1
Time to move on...
2007-12-14 16:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by NEVER EXISTED.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun just let him cool down. would u be pissed if he hung out with one of ur girlfriends? or maybe this guy has feelings for u and ur bf knew that and didnt trust u. Any way if he doesnt call u in a few days, call him and see what happens. If he still doesnt listen, then he isnt worth ur time. Good luck
2007-12-14 17:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by FOB fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just didn't think you would hang out with guys all day and part of the night. I know that when I was young like you I would do that and it would get any guy dating me upset. So if you need you space then your not ready for what he wants.
2007-12-14 17:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control issues. He hasn't really "broken up" with you he's just using manipulation to gain power( over you). Here's what you do,don't attempt to make any contact with him, after a period of time he'll call you(professing to be sorry) and should you make the choice to take him back,you will see the same behavior again......This is the behavior of an abuser.
2007-12-14 17:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by libbyM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably got an idea in his head that you're interested in one of the guys you went out with and he probably thinks you blew him off to hang out with them and he's angry and jealous. Just give him time to cool off and then call him up and explain to him what happened.
2007-12-14 17:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
diz thing is probably bored. i think you were too young for that old stuff! you know what some boyz /old/ they are really like to change the sweet young girlz in their last free times... I think he just did so... thaz y he didnt hear your side... cuz he dont need you anymore... he was lookin for some reason to break up... and at last he just got some tinny lil reason... and he did it...
2007-12-14 17:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by zorigtuuguu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that
the big thing he saw was that you were not with him.
you went with other people instead.
you see
he probably thought that you would have waited, but when he found out you didn't...
i think thats the problem.
Sorry about it all and i hope you feel better later!
hman1717@yahoo.com
=)
2007-12-14 17:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because guys can be jacka***** sometimes. Its something you gotta learn about them. Maybe he heard something from someone else. Try to ignore him until he wants to talk and apologize, if he ever does.
2007-12-14 17:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by anew_star@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause u where hanging out with them. you did not wait for him to call u back. just a jealousy problem with himself.
2007-12-14 17:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by agello24 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He got upset and jeolous. Do you like one is there any reason he would asume that you do. he sounds like a jerk.
2007-12-14 16:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋