Ok, so i am in high school and i just met a gu i really really like. we connect very well and have a lot of the same morals and stuff and i would really like to try my chances with him. The problem is that we have a HUGE height difference. see, im fine with a guy being a few inches shorter, but im 5'10" and he is 5'0. ten inches is a lot. so...what do i do? how do i handle it? do i wait for him to get a couple inches taller? help!
2007-12-14 16:51:05 · 14 answers · asked by *♥Jinx♥* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i forgot to mention that i have been talking to him and he hates that hes shorter and thinks its embarassing... but i feel bad it sounds like im really superficial! i like him because of his personalit and who he is. its an added bonus that hes cute! just the height... but thank ou guys anyway
2007-12-14 17:02:56 · update #1
When you have been married 50 years and have osteoperosis it will matter a lot more that you like him and he takes care of you than that you once had more bone mass.
2007-12-14 16:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Truth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the guy, then you should not let the height difference keep you from being his friend. Maybe you should take it slow, and see if it really is a big issue, because you may not even care about the little things once you really get to know his inner person.
2007-12-15 00:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by msbalisong 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. Who is this really bothering? If you honestly like the guy look over his height (no pun intended). Ya know, maybe he feels a little self conscious hanging out with a tall person. Don't get hung up on the physical stuff. You may end up cheating your self out of a great relationship.
2007-12-15 00:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 inches is a lot but if u really like him go for it unless u see that hes uncomfortable with it... but im with a guy 3 in shorter and im 5 10 too no biggy really if u can be friends u'll be fine
2007-12-15 00:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jacks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this one is simple. if you really really like him then go for it. outside appearances shouldnt matter when going into a relationship. sure, if they look good, be happy about it. but dont deliberately avoid going out with someone b/c they dont look exactly the way you want them to
i really hope this helps and i hope u take a chance. and if anyone messes with you about the height difference then try and ignore it. what they might think doesnt concern you and frankly i dont think you would want to hear what they have to say anyway.
2007-12-15 00:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
height doesnt matter as much as feelings do. I understand what ya mean, but if you truly like the guy, I say go for it [: Im sure that you will be just fine, and if any one makes fun of you, just blow it off, and move on. Forget the rumors and gossip, go with your feelings
2007-12-15 00:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Carolinee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really click, then height shouldnt matter, ik its not the same, but I am 5' 3" and he was 4' 12". and enother ex, a friend of mine was 5' 9" and her bf was 4' 9"
So, u might have to bend to hug and stuff but he will catch up :)
best of luck!
hope this helps!
2007-12-15 00:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by hollister chick:D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They said Love conquers all,there is an adage,age doesn't matter so do height or whatever physical attribute of your partner, You may be with the most handsome man yet not happy?
2007-12-15 00:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't wait for him to get taller or what. What matters most is that you liked him. Well, maybe if you waited, you'll never get a chance. In matters of love, no matter who you are, as long as you loved each other, no one would care.
2007-12-15 01:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm well i would say give him a chance and if it feels uncomfortabke being taller you probly need to find some one your size that is like you that sucks
2007-12-15 00:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋