I gaze at her in sheer despair
And see her Mother standing there.
2007-12-14 16:48:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!!!!! I hope u weren't a pig and just dated her for her body. Theres more to a girl than her apperance. She a person w/ a brain and a personality. Unless more has changed other than the numbers on her scale in the morning, u don't need to break it off. Theres way more to her.
2007-12-14 16:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by KDS <3s U!!! 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well some say food can be a substitute for sex, if she is not getting satisfied she may have turned to tasty treats to calm her frustration, and satiate her needs. If you realize you cannot compete against the food and food is winning her heart , and if you care about her ,you will work on it (funny how the script can flip eh?) you should talk it out, and may discover you have more in common than you thought, both having issues with the others "size" . lol
Help her out -like work out together in the gym- she might just need some encouragement and if you do it together you can get in shape along with her. Maybe she eats to hide her secret contempt for you, perhaps she does it cuz she has lost interest in you and feels bad just dumping YOU and knows you would dump her if she got fat , a little psychological trick to spare you ,so lo and behold- mission accomplished. The shallow are so easy to manipulate. Or she is unhappy and eats to satisfy needs not being met by you??? Maybe if you dump her you'll run into her a year from now and she'll have a new dude and be all thin and pretty. lol. Most dudes wonder and complain about this after they get married- "oh the wife got fat blah blah blah" well what you might not have realized is you contributed to her getting fat. When you point a finger you have 3 pointing back at you-lol cliche but true. good luck with that. I actually lost weight in my relationship,I am lookin' hot thanks to his expert skill in "certain aerobic activities"- a nice, hard workout sweats off the pounds like u would not believe. ;) oops gotta get with, I mean get to the "Jim" . LOL
2007-12-14 17:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Darkness Soothes Me 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have to ask, then yes. I'm sure you've had a lot of good times with her, but dude, she's not "the one." Not if you're thinking about dumping her because she's gotten fat. Save both of you a long, drawn out "growing apart" and just end it quickly, like ripping off a band-aid.
2007-12-14 16:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by John Q. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's say you bought a brand new car. If you got into an accident with that car then it is damaged. Sure, if you fix it, it will look better, but the bottom line is, the damage is done and you no longer have that brand new car. Same with a woman. If she's gained 10+lbs, then she's no longer that hot piece of a** you were lusting after.
Bi+ches don't want to face reality, but the truth is their figure is important. If she doesn't have enough respect to stay as hot as the first day you met her, then you need to DTB. Dump that Bi+ch!
Get yourself a new car, my friend.
2007-12-14 17:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by TheTotalStud_StudTotal 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I guess she doesn't feel that she has to impress you anymore, thats sort of sad and she can make it seem like you are shallow for breaking up with her, maybe you should stick around a little longer and see if she does anything else that points to that conclusion
2007-12-14 16:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, what can I say to that???? I mean, have you ever loved her? It sure does not sound like you have. My friend, there are so many things in life that are so much more important than looks that I don`t even know where to start. You should leave her yes, why? she deserves better! Easy as that.
2007-12-14 17:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by thefallen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and break up with her. She deserves better. Next time don't waist a woman's time if you won't be with her when she turns old and grey, or gains weight due to side effects of medicine or something.
2007-12-14 16:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hang her on a cross and burn her,the very ideal of putting on xtra Pd's. and not informing you,you the sensitive one,the one who could never hurt some one over a simple 10-50lbs,and for another thing ,to see her mom,that's gotta hurt,considering how bad she is,its a mystery that you don't have nightmares just over that alone,but IT seems theres no one left to grow up,heres hoping that you don't have to use the bathroom by yourself,twit
2007-12-15 02:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by THE"IS" 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's probably your fault she got fat. All those chocolates you buy her and taking her out for all those 7 course meals.
2007-12-14 17:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait till summer.
it is too much to ask to do a fat chick in the summer
when it is cold outside, though, rockin a fat chick is kool
it's kinda the feeling you get eating a good meal after you been choppin' wood all day.
it just soooo right
2007-12-14 16:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by DocLove 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋