I met this girl at a not so nice place but she already made it clear, she does not want a relationship at the moment. But the last few weeks we've been seeing each other I just cant help but think about her each and every time. She sends me messages every day and we have a fun time together but suddenly she stops . ...no news....Is she afraid of falling for me or she's just a player?
2007-12-14 16:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by juan-o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
juz guve her some time, if she starts going out with another guy than she is definetely a player but if she but if she doesn't than it is possible that she is afraid of falling for you but if she really is a player the messages get fewer and fewer with time not juz suddenly stop
2007-12-14 16:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by helia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be afraid to fall into another meaningless relationship (her not knowing if it would be a meaningless relationship doesn't want to take her chance and get hurt again ) . I wouldn't think she is a player because she didn't get anything out of you other then having a good time and talking to you. You should ask her whats wrong and why she hasn't responded and then just don't push it let it go see what happens.
2007-12-14 16:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by -tobecontinued- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her time. if you met her some place not so nice mabey she is just not used to men like you. theres a 50-50 chance. mabey she is playing you or mabey she is just scared. women get scared to if they had alot of bad thing happen to them giver her time. if you guys had alot of fun together mabey she we figure out that what you guys had was great and mabey she will come back to you. but don't get too needy and call her veery day giver her time. but judt a little if you giver her to much she will think you don't reall care about her timming is everything ok.
2007-12-14 16:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she stopped talking to you and she does not want a relationship you need to leave her alone. She is certainly not the right person for you. You know that you will never have her. You have to move on.
2007-12-14 16:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while and see what happens next. I am leaning towards the just a player but you never know.
2007-12-14 16:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she's not that into you. People who always claim they're not ready for relationships really mean they haven't found what they were looking for and not willing to try on people who don't make them jump out of their seats. You'd experience better progress if you completely ignored her.
2007-12-14 16:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by Story Unknown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bud but got to say it! You got to move on, dont beat yourself up over someone that doesnt want you back.Somewhere out there in this screwd up world there is someone that does.
*Or at least thats what I like to tell myself
2007-12-14 16:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably senses you really like her and it scared her. When you're that crazy about somebody, it's very hard to play it off. I mean, how long can you really just pretend to be her friend anyways?
2007-12-14 16:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Kevy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just afraid of what her friends will think. thats the biggest thing thats always on a girls mind.
2007-12-14 16:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by katie! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they just like the attention.
Hot chick at my workplace, we joke and kind of flirt. (She's ssssmokin' hot.) The other day she tells me she had a dream about me.
But she can't (won't) tell me what it's about. WTF!!!!!!!!
What am I supposed to imagine????
We're both married, and it can't happen, but it's fun to think about, and I think she likes to see me writhe in my corner...
2007-12-14 16:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by flashmeon3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋