A man is paying for dinner enough times so he can sleep with the woman and that is about it. The woman is accepting the dates/dinner so she can get a free meal or perhaps gifts. At least, a prostitute is honest; "real" women don't like to admit they are whores anyway. It's better if we are truthful and no one ends up with hurt feelings and wasted time.
2007-12-14 15:52:26 · 24 answers · asked by winger44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I knew this would bring the passion out! Success!
2007-12-14 16:03:18 · update #1
I know guys will take a girl out and buy dinner just to get sex..... but do you really think women go out with any guy just for a free meal? We don't roll like that....
2007-12-14 15:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dulos 4 · 6⤊ 4⤋
i suppose the better question to ask yourself is, in the end, do you think all the money you've invested into a prostitute is actually going to come back? doubt it. especially with those doctor bills to take care of ...the "problems" that you caught from the prostitute. and i don't know about the wives you've been around but i "put out" to my man because the sex is awesome. how does it make any sense to assume a woman is a closeted prostitute just because she doesn't want to date a loser who's broke? if i can go out and work my asss off for how i like to live, you should too. which means you should be able to hold your own as well i can for myself. i'd accept a date with a man who doesn't pay for the date. but it reflects on his character negatively (it makes you look cheap! and stingy and inconsiderate, to name the least) which means there will probably be no 2nd date. not unless the personality and charm are just THAT great. which is highly unlikely. yes, you're right about the difference, that it's emotional connection and love. good luck finding a financially independent, patient woman who wants to sit around, keeping her fingers crossed that "it" is going to happen between you two. that's why you pay for dates. and then on the 3rd, you tell her how you feel about splitting bills and all that jazz. it's ok to be honest and keep your standards, just be realistic.
2016-05-24 00:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, no, far from it. First of all: Lets clarify a little: DATING is the process of one man taking out a women to enjoy her company, get to better know her, and make sure she has a nice evening. NO WHERE does it say that the women must sleep with the man. PROSTITUTION is the act of one man paying a women for the sole enjoyment of intercourse.
Second of all: look at what you're saying: Do you think all women are one-night-stand whores? Far from it.
Dating and Prostitution are two completly different things.One is honest, meaningful, and what some girls may phrase as "romantic." The other is crude, selfish, unethical, and dangerous. Case closed.
2007-12-14 16:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mikel.007 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Not every guy is dating and paying those dinners to just sleep with the woman. He is paying those dinners to spend time with the woman. That way, he can get to know her as well as he can let her know who he is.
Both of them are trying to see if they want to live with each other for the rest of their lives. The only reason why the guy pays is because it's the girls who have the final decision (you can argue, but it's true), so the guy is trying to be nice.
To say that all dating results in sleeping with each other is way off.
2007-12-14 15:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by niiro13 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If thats how you take it well...dating is dating and dosent involve sex. You are worth more than a movie or the price of dinner! A woman dosent go out and date for food! aprostitute is honest in that her only need is to make money. think better of yourself or hit the streets, sorry to be so blunt but you wanted honesty.
2007-12-14 15:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by msraina888 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i would like to think most of the time a man isnt buying a woman dinner just so he can sleep with her, but to have a relationship with her. You dont have relationships, real emotional/mental/physical relationships with hookers.
But if you're one of those guys (assuming you are a guy, because i cant think of a reason a girl would think this) that takes women out to dinner just to sleep with them, then yeah, go to a hooker.
2007-12-14 15:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I joke with my husband that there is a difference between a hooker and a wife:
A hooker you pay for once and kick her out of bed.
A wife you pay for until you die.
We're very tongue in cheek so we laugh about this.
I don't think dating is anything like prostitution simply on the grounds of usually when you're dating, emotions are involved. A prostitute you screw once, kick out of bed, and send her packing. When you're dating someone, it courtship goes both ways with both parties paying from time to time.
2007-12-14 16:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!!!
Women are looking for a relationship usually. If you're that badly in need, be honest and take a 20 or 50 on the main blvd and find someone who will reciprocate instead of using unsuspecting women.
2007-12-14 15:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by Leopardlady 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What the hell kind of thought process is that??? Let me guess, you're a dude who's taking women out, paid for their meals, movie or whatever and you aren't getting laid?? Am I correct?
"Real women" are just really whores??? Wow, you are a total loser and I was going to write more but you're not even worth it. And if by chance you are a women, stop being a sl*t and guys will stop treating you like one.
Wow.............
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2007-12-14 16:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Shel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the meal is to get to know one another and it's not because of the meals bought that the woman sleeps with the man, it's because of their connection. prostitutes sleep with a man to get money to put food on the table. it's different. maybe not for you since you're probably a slob who drives around street corners.
2007-12-14 16:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is, if the goal is to sleep with the date
Where the hell did dating, in the hopes of a realtionship or potential marriage, go to?
One thing I've learned, this generation is so daggum eager to jump into someone elses pants...
Hell, doesn't anyone teach morals anymore?
2007-12-14 16:00:48 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. Agappae 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋