i recently went out with this boy this week, we talked for 2 months we really like eachother, he recently asked me out. We went out for 1 week and today i broke up with him because i was informed taht he was talking to his friend, that he was going to break up with me because i didnt want to have sex. But apparently he changed his mind, and didnt want to tell me that he wanted to break up with me. But i found out that he had this idea in his head from my friend who is in there health class, who he also told. So i automaitically broke up with him right when i heard this. He also said that the reason why he took so long to ask me out is because he wanted to have sex with me then make it offical. And i actually liked the boy, nd i think he actually liked me. But wow isnt this boy ignorant? Why would he ask me out if he knew i wasnt that type of girl, and weve only gone out for a week nd he expected me to give it up? Why do boys want sex so much?!
2007-12-14 15:39:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's an idiot.
All he wanted was your body.
Don't ever go out with him again.
He doesn't care about you, he doesn't want to get to know you.... you've only been going out for 1 daggum week.
he just wanted to get into your pants...
forget him....
You did the right thing.
Nice (kind or sweet) girls who respect their bodies enough not to give their virginity away before marriage, in my opinion... are extremely attractive.
I would rather die than have sex before marriage.
I couldn't live knowing that I had robbed someone of their virginity, while simultaniously trashing mine.
Pre-marital sex is the number 1 ender of relationships.
sure it may be fun for just one night.... but the consequences live with you forever...
and when you finally decide to get married... your spouse has to deal with knowing that you gave yourself away to someone else.
Sure, guys, go ahead and sleep with someone...
Go ahead and ruin your life while your young, so you can grow up with lots of regrets.
... sorry, no mercy here.... my tough and blunt words are evidence of my love.
... and to the person who asked this question:
You Go Girl!
:)
2007-12-14 15:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Agappae 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hahaha what can I said, teenager thinks they're everything. They can get what they want and get away with it. I congratz you for not giving it up to a moron like him. More girl should be like you. Good luck finding the right guy and a gentleman in the future . And yes boy mind are very stupid they think of sex all day, I don't deny I never think of that, I am more mature now so it's over. some people still think about sex all day and nothing else. Sad isn't it. So CONGRATZ :) AGAIN
2007-12-14 23:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by YooH8M3? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be angry when you wrote this - are are you always so flippant? You shouldn't react to what other people say when you have the opportunity to confront your boyfriend personally. You might be surprised at what he has to say. Also, at your age 99.9% of guys will want sex right away, and they will push you for it. It has a lot to do with hormones and maturity, but you better get used to it and learn better ways to cope with it. You need to learn to have relationships with men that are successful even in the absence of sex, and that requires that you learn coping skills. Sooner or later you will REALLY meet a guy you like very much, who will demand sex, and then you will find out what you will do under that kind of pressure. Without coping skills you will be lost. Just breaking up with a guy based off of word of mouth from his "friend" and then blasting him on Yahoo is a short-sighted solution. It doesn't sound to me like you were that attracted to him in the first place.
Seriously, I suggest you ask your mother, father or older friends for some good techniques to handle and decline requests for sex and still have fulfilling relationships.
I applaud your efforts at abstinence, and I hope you wait until you are married - it's much better that way. But lose the hostility and the attitude - you'll turn WAY more guys off that way then you will by being abstinent.
2007-12-14 23:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce Leroy 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Good for you for dumping him!!!!! You did the right thing. Now stay strong and teach him a lesson. DON'T give him another chance. Believe me, the other guys like that in your school will hear about it and they won't try to do the same thing to you. It'll make it easier to find the right kind of guy!
2007-12-14 23:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by India 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys do really love sex! because their reproductive organ is outside their body, haven't you noticed it?
whereas the females, their genital organs are inside that's why they can resist their sex urges..
so, if i were you, never ever break up your virginity with just a boy who even seemed to be the best guy on earth..
i admit that almost all (take note, NOT ALL!) boys loved sex
but women, can resist it, if they would really do, and if they loved their feminity.
2007-12-15 01:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some men look at women as conquests. Not all men, but particularly young men. This is just like alot of women liking "bad boys" -- it's just a "phase" that people grow out of when they mature in relationships and realize how much they are limiting themselves.
2007-12-14 23:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by cracky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some boys are pigs and ya that's ignorant why not just make it official by a gift or a dinner or something not that.
2007-12-14 23:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Volleyball forever 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!
Some people, that's all they think about, all they want. Girls can be like that to the boys, too. It is good you have enough dignity and security in yourself to break it off with him. I am proud of you!
2007-12-14 23:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Leopardlady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you know what you are doing you will someday find a guy who isnt like that this guy however will have a harder time finding a girl that will saisfy him good luck to you you sound very intelligent
2007-12-14 23:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Lynnette 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it's not all boys, just that jerky nuts. Thank goodness you found out what he was like early on.
2007-12-14 23:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋