I have a problem, my girlfriend likes to have sex before period is due or after, even during sometimes, i don't like it, it's messy and smelly and when you shoot your load its bloody and messy, blood on your penis, errrrrrrrrrr, no!!!! how do i tell her i don't want to do it without hurting her feelings? good answers pls!!!! maybe females are best to answer this one, answers off males happily accepted, do you have this problem?
2007-12-14 14:31:40 · 28 answers · asked by tresflip1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a problem, my girlfriend likes to have sex before period is due or after, i don't like it, it's messy and smelly and when you shoot your load its bloody and messy, blood on your penis, errrrrrrrrrr, no!!!! how do i tell her i don't want to do it without hurting her feelings?maybe females are best to answer this one, answers off males happily accepted, do you have this problem? I add onto this question, i think the bleeding is discharge, to much sex, hard sex etc just before period is due. not actually during period.
2007-12-14 15:39:01 · update #1
Many women enjoy sex at this time in their cycles because of the surge in hormones. You just need to be honest with her and say you are not comfortable having sex with her at that time of the month. You could suggest giving each other massages instead. Do not make her feel like she's dirty or gross because of her period, just let her know that you still find her sexy but would rather wait the few days.
2007-12-15 07:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by slyfox7273 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I confess I get extremely horny around my period, so I understand where your girlfriend's coming from. Just tell her you don't really enjoy it when she's on, due to the mess. Maybe between the two of you, you can come up with a less-messy option. Perhaps suggest she wears a tampon while you play with her clit....? If you're comfortable with it, of course. I'm sure there must be other ways around it.
2007-12-14 23:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Vicsta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else. Just tell her that it makes you uncomfortable. I have never heard of such a thing as a girl wanting sex during her period that's a first. Let her know what's up. That's way to messy to deal with.
2007-12-14 22:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by luxemomny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wuddn't want 2 have sex when I'm on my period becuz of the circumstances. U shud just explain to her how u feel and tell her ur not comfortable having sex while she's on her period. I'm sure she'll understand.
2007-12-14 22:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that sex when I was a teen. Sucks big time.Talk to her about the matter. She must understand. Besides let me tell you for you information. Period blood is not clean. Has the garbage of the human body female reaction.You can get INFECTIONS,.DISEASES,OR ELSE. Think about it.Are you playing with fire?. YES!
2007-12-14 22:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Got it. i'm a girl and you do tend to get a little more hornier around that time, just tease her, rub her back, her feet , kiss her. BUT DON"T FREAK HER. unles you all do it in the shower it might not be as messy.
2007-12-14 22:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by butta 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell her this...that if she doesn't stop having sex on her period she will end up getting a severe urinary tract infection..
uti's are caused by bacteria...esp. bacteria from sex..
and if ur are pms'ing then you have even more bacteria that could go into the urinary tract..
sooo if your girlfriends doesnt want to go on antibiotics (which cause yeast infections) or be told not to have sex for a couple weeks...then i suggest she change her thoughts on having sex during her period.
2007-12-14 22:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by dj's mommy ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have to agree with you that this isn't the best circumstance for sex...Just tell her that it doesn't do it for you. I know that I would definately not feel like doing it if my partner wasn't in to it.
2007-12-14 22:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by tx_heathervest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-15 04:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Feelsgood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you would rather do it when she's all done with her period because it makes you uncomfortable and she should understand if she doesnt then she cares more about her pleasure then yours and it should be an equal pleasure relationship{if you get what i mean} :D
2007-12-14 22:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by ellmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋