I THOUGHT MY BOYFRIEND CHEATED AND WELL IT TURNED OUT TO BE A HUGE MISUNDERSTANDING AND THAT NIGHT I WENT TO THE BEACH W/ HIS COUSIN WHO HAS HAD THE BIGGEST CRUSH ON ME SINCE LIKE FOREVER AND WELL THINGS ESCALATED FROM THEIR AND WE ENDED UP HAVING SEX. I LATER FIND OUT MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN COMPLETELY FAITHFUL WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-12-14 13:23:52 · 70 answers · asked by liciousblue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it happened about 3 weeks ago
2007-12-14 13:50:38 · update #1
Pray he is a forgiving person.
2007-12-14 13:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by YoungShyCareerGirl 6 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I believe it depends upon how shut your households are (now not distance intelligent!) you probably have a detailed knit loved ones that involves all of your far-off cousins then I feel it could be a bit of awkward and would believe like being with a household member. Announcing that though, there is nothing illegal about sleeping together with your third cousin as you are up to now removed there is not any damage in it.
2016-08-06 11:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by mellisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if this could help, but my friends did this.
The girl though the guy cheated, so she slept with sumone. The boy found out and they made a deal. The guy had sex with the biggest slut at their school, and the two called it even. They've been happy ever since. But those two were two of a kind, i dont know if it will work for u and ur bf.
2007-12-14 13:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it relies upon on how close your families are (no longer distance smart!) in case you have an in depth knit kin that comes with all your distant cousins then i think of it is a sprint awkward and would sense like being with a kin member. saying that regardless of the undeniable fact that, there's no longer something unlawful approximately snoozing with your third cousin as you're to this point got rid of there is not any injury in it.
2016-11-03 07:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved ur boyfriend, you shouda trusted him in the first place
if you still want the relationship, call him now, tell him, and how sorry you are and how you are sooooooo sorry
hopefully he'll understand, but the sooner the better if u call him later and apologize, itll be like saying this:
"o btw, i had sex with ur cuz last night because i thought thought you were cheating and i wanted to get u back"
it was really mean of you to do that to his cuz, he'll be crushed. But it was mean of him to do tht to ur bf.
ya well u ****** up big, shouda thought it through
theyll prob end up hatingt each other
2007-12-14 13:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since there are so many more fish in the sea, I don't understand why in the world you had to pick his family to do this with, especially putting yourself in the situation when you knew how the cousin felt about you. My opinion is, you should end the relationship so YOU don't ruin their friendship when your ways are revealed. Not to impressive.
2007-12-14 13:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You juz made one of the biggest mistake in you life...you're bad, girl!! well since you 're already bad then why don't u go all the way...don't tell your bf....because that might hurts him to death! if you feel guilty then juz break up with him but don't tell the real reason why! and have a face to face talk with that cousin becoz I think he's a jerk, too!!! welll yeah!!...
2007-12-14 13:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by â?}-{annA]-[?? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God he does not find out because if was him i would dump you and rightfully so. Even if he did cheat on you that does not mean you should sleep with one of his family members or one of his close friends. His cousin should be ashamed of himself because he is more low down and dirtier than you. Hopefully you boyfriend can find a better woman.
2007-12-14 13:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should tell him. When you found out, or thought, he cheated on you, the mature thing to do isn't to go do it right back. Don't get on his level because look what happened. And not to mention it's his cousin? Ouch. You definitely need to tell him, and don't be surprised if his reaction isn't quite what you'd like to hear. If I found out my boyfriend has sex with my cousin, I'd say PEACE!
2007-12-14 13:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Crazygirl9 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will have to confront to him about it.
Either that, or understand that his cousin WILL brag to him about it, and things will really escalate from there.
It's going to be messy, and your relationship will probably suffer, but it'll be better to stay honest and tell him about it and maybe work something out, then to have him hate you forever.
2007-12-14 13:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha well, number 1, you're exactly as bad as him.
Remember all those thoughts and emotions you had before you found out he hadn't cheater? Yup, he'll have all those with you and rightfully so.
Even if he did cheat and you did that to pay him back, ****, just as bad..
Way to go, and now, best of all, if you dump the cousin, you've hurt him as well.
Enjoy your rotten situation, honesty is the only way out of this one.
Oh, and you probably drove a wedge in between him and his cousin.
2007-12-14 13:27:26 · answer #11 · answered by Corvus 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋