my ex is thinking of getting back together with me he's 29 and i'm 22.i go for older men lol. the relationship wasn't terribly bad we did have some good times. he just wasn't always reliable however we could make it better. in the summer i met a 32 year old latin man. very sweet handsome. i thought he would be the right boyfriend. he seemed to be interested in me after he knew about my age. he said he'd want to be friends that i was too young. the age doesn't matter to me. shall i get to know the 32 year old or shall i give my ex another try?
2007-12-14 13:22:23 · 17 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do whatever your heart tells you 2
2007-12-14 13:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by pichi luvz u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you like older men thats good and all but don't go too old. I wouldn't go more than 5-7 years older. I mean what can you have in comon with a man thats 10 yrs older than you? For your ex boyfriend don't waste your time, if he wasn't reliable before he won't be now. Your better than that so respect yourself more, take your time and the right one will come along.
2007-12-14 21:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by missrichjeans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself believe in the saying that you left a relationship behind for a reason. You made a previous decision to move forward, why turn back now? You must live all of what life has to offer. Have fun, you're young. When the time comes, you will not need to ask any questions the answer will already be there.
2007-12-14 21:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Loretta C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex wasn't reliable and he is asking to hook up with you again, do not trust him because for all you know he just wants you because he can't get anyone else. I would say go for the 32 year old, it sounds like he is responsible if he wants to start out as friends(you said because of your age, but still). Starting anew refreshes the mind and soul, so do so.
2007-12-14 21:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the ex another try that latin boy is WAY to old for you and with older men sometimes they try to control you and besides the latin man is 10 years older that is a tad bit to old for you
2007-12-14 21:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by tennesseegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll go with your ex because you've already known him. That 32 year old guy wants to date women his own age.So i would say either get back with your ex or find a guy that's your age or one that doesn't mind to be with an younger girl.
Good Luck
2007-12-14 21:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. The latin guy already told you that he thought that you were too young for him, so he's not interested. Your ex is unreliable and if you can't rely on your guy, then he's not worth having.
2007-12-14 21:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by smoothjazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
''New roads lead to new adventures, old roads can be all too familiar''. What does this mean? Who knows, I just made it up. This is something you are going to have to decide as it effects the most important person you know, yourself! Good luck, I wish you happiness!
;)
2007-12-14 21:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get to know the 32 year more becuz if u dont you'll always wonder wat if so maybe you should give it a chance..look at it this way if u dont get in a relationship with him you'll always have him as a good friend
2007-12-14 21:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by Tiana C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the ex about the 32 year old, i can asure you he will either give you the right anwser, or not talk at all, eithr way, you have your solution
2007-12-14 21:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman find the right guy, know yourself and listen to your heart. That's all i got 2 say.
2007-12-14 21:41:17 · answer #11 · answered by Nellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋