I met someone, we've been living together for 6 months, we have talked alot about marriage, spending the rest of our lives together, how much we love each other. I'm 31, he's 27. I've never felt this way before, it's great, but I'm scared to death because neither one of us have a good history with relationships...how do I relax and fully enjoy what I have?
2007-12-14 13:11:29 · 14 answers · asked by pondering... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIND A WAY TO RELAX. I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. YOU MET SOMEONE AND HE IS DRIVING YOU CRAZY. AND YOU WANT SO MUCH SO FAST IN SUCH A SHORT TIME. TRY TO LIVE IN THE MOMENT AND ENJOY. DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE MANY INDIVIDUALS OUT THERE WHO ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO LOVE? AND MORE IMPORTANTLY SOMEONE WHO LOVE THEM BACK?
2007-12-14 13:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lasting relationship has to have the following three ingredients:
1. friendship, 2. communication 3. intimacy.
These 3 are the recipe for a successful relationship.
Best wishes!
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2007-12-14 13:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by cocosolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trauma is creeping you. maybe the reason why you're together is to join forces in believing that you can both create a good home. You had not so good history about relationships, well, im pretty sure that you've had a lot lessons learned from them. that could be a great foundation for a future home.
courage. goodluck!
2007-12-14 13:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dumb dumb you have been living with eachother for only 6 months. that not really a long time if you think about it. just live the moment dont worry about what happened in the past because at the end of the day if guys were meant for each other everything should work between u guys
2007-12-14 13:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by ctmnky12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing on the negatives...
There are negatives to everything...even true love...so just focus on the positives...and you'll be fine...make a list of all the good stuff, and try to come up with something funny about the bad stuff...
A sense of humor works wonders in almost all situations...
2007-12-14 13:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is take each day as it comes and try not to bring old fears into the new relationship. Learn from your prior mistakes. Good Luck!
2007-12-14 13:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if uve lived together for 6 months ur doing really good just relax man
2007-12-14 13:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by musicmanchuck4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age you got to start sometime. You are not a young muffin you know so give it a chance the worst that could happen is that it doesn't work and you been there done that.
2007-12-14 13:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey love is something powerful it comes and goes, I just wish you luck finding love. And you 2 will be great together.
2007-12-14 13:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by whitefire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is short u wanna wait till u ready so good luck
2007-12-14 13:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋