My bf of 2.5 months broke up with me today, and I still want to be with him.
He broke up with me because some of his friends said that I never trusted him.
I told him that I did. But he said that if I did than I would not care what other people say. The thing is that I don't care what people say, I am just tired of people lying to me about everything.
Now we are trying to work things out and get back together.
Good or bad?
2007-12-14 11:49:45 · 16 answers · asked by Llama love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he feels the need to create drama due to his FRIENDS then I don't know that you can work it out. It's one thing if there is abuse in the relationship or something like that.
Your relationship with your boyfriend is between the two of you. If he feels the need to rely on his friends to tell him how he should feel then it will never work. You all need to address this while you all talk it out. Good luck!
2007-12-14 12:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good!! If there is one thing I have learned from love is that it never comes easy , there will always be problems such as these and if u two both care for each other which I'm sure you do than u will work through it!! and when u do it would all be worth it! Just never give up!! U should explain to him how u feel about ppl lying all the time and get him to understand ur side of the story but at the same time listen to his...I wish u the best of luck!
2007-12-14 11:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good. Obviously you two want to be together, so you should try to work things out.
Stand up for each other. There have been a few relationships I've been in where the guy didn't stand up for me.
It didn't work out.
2007-12-14 11:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Blonde&Intelligent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call up ur homies from the ghetto and go snuff the people who say that ur lying cause u got beef with them
but seriously earn his trust to prove them wrong and if u cant then i suggest u move on. i know that you'll find a way to make things right
2007-12-14 11:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he broke up with you because of what his friends said. Why in the world would his friends think you don't trust him and how is this any other their business?
2007-12-14 11:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is very good that you guys are trying to work it out, and if he only gets information from his friends instead of you, then i think that if he really trusts what you really say and not what other people say, then you are a great couple!
2007-12-14 11:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad ... if he wants you to trust him. he wants to do something on the side... never trust him anymore. trust is something that get established over time. it is not something you give. all i'm saying is even if you get back together with him. keep a very close eye on him and what he does.
2007-12-14 11:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by dannyhawara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in high school... this will always happen until you get out and people start growing up... it's good that you are trying to work it out... good luck
2007-12-14 11:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by ikeman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if you want him back and hes accusing you of something you didnt do (not trusting him) then u need to tell him off. tell him you always trusted him and that he has no reason to believe you didnt. tell him that if he really wants to be with you he will believe you and stop the accusations. if he comes back then hes the right one, if not then forget him. hes not deserving of you.
2007-12-14 11:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop listening to what people say, he is right...who cares how badly it gets on your nerves, ignore it ALL only you know what you share, only you see the true him!! so trust him!
2007-12-14 11:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by Bandolera721 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋