I am used to dating men a little older than me and this one is the smallest age gap I have yet to experience. How do I teach how to be more experienced in approaching me for sex?
2007-12-14 10:45:43 · 23 answers · asked by Doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him with a very kind tone of voice. Ask him what he likes in sex, get his opinions on his fantasies or how he likes it or even what he likes what you 2 currently do together. That should lead into him asking you the same thing. Then tell him how you want him to act, behave or whatever. Have fun.
2007-12-14 10:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he know if you don't tell him what you want? Men are not mind-readers, and maybe he is inexperienced. Tell him what you like, or better yet-- show him what you like. And what's to stop you making moves on him? Maybe if you try to seduce him he will have a little more courage to do the same. It's not a one-way street.
2007-12-14 10:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god i know!
my ex bf was the first guy i gave myself to. and 5 months later i was having an affair..
bad idea!!... but my ex was my first, and even tho i didn't know anyhting better, i KNEW there was better.
anwyays, my ex used to tickle me and act like a lil boy when he wanted to get laid. there was no manliness, strong groping, nothing.
it was like having sex with a child, and he was 8 years older than me.
what you want to do, is go for a late night walk with him, go to a secluded park or something, throw him down and be agressive with him. maybe he'll like it a whole bunch and get the message that you want it like that.. make it exciting, call him a ***** and take advantage of him lol.
this might not be your style, but it might help?
2007-12-14 10:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by swifty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly Doll you've got to tell him, I was having the same problem and I just had to suck it up and tell him I wasn't trying to be mean but I had to let him know, he'll make the change especially if you tell him it's affecting how good it is for you. Just dont be a b*tch bout it, if your real sweet it'll get you a much better outcome.
2007-12-14 10:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN!! I know that you want romance, and strenght, and all that, but if is not fun then why do it?
Sex is the time to be back as a kid. Joke around, taking it too serious will create boredom, tension and fights.
2007-12-14 10:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Juan G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the manly man answer
2007-12-14 10:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't teach him just tell him that he should look for techniques on the internet and if he is not mature enough don't have sex with him
2007-12-14 10:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him, but please be gentle. Sex is a sensitive subject to some and it might make it worse if he feels pushed out of his comfort zone, especially when it comes to sex. But, you do need to tell him.
2007-12-14 10:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control and show him what you like and the way you want it, come on with the come on.
2007-12-14 10:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're so mature and used to more mature men, the best way is to tell him.
2007-12-14 10:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋