How can I catch a guy's attention? I am in high school, and have never had a boyfriend... but I have no idea why. I have a nice face, I take care of myself, I am intelligent, interesting, and outgoing. Is it possible that I am intimidating?
I have plenty of guys who are just friends... but no have ever liked me.
Also, I liked this one guy, and told him about it... but he didn't feel the same. I understand that it might not have been meant to be.. but no one (to my knowledge) has ever liked me. What is wrong with me?
2007-12-14 10:42:52 · 12 answers · asked by darkstar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it. You still have plenty of time. There's NO need to rush anything... unless you're LOOKING for heartbreak.
Just be yourself; this sounds cliche, but it is the best thing you can do. If you want a guy to like you, you would want him to like you when yourself, not when you're acting, right?
I'm sure you'll find someone in due time. But in all seriousness, don't worry so much about it. Just focus on school and growing as a person. However, I'm not telling you to give up... you just have to find the right mix between effort and letting things happen.
If it's any consolation, I'm twenty years old and I've never had a girlfriend (my best friend even stole my prom date). But I'm not worried and neither should you. Besides, high school relationships are shallow at best.
2007-12-14 11:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Curious J, Esq. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the problem is that if you hang out with so many guys or if you have plenty of guy friends then it intimidates the guy who actually liked u because he may think that there is just too much competition.
So cool it with the guy friends for awhile and see what happens. Anyway you cant force guys to like you. When they do they will come. are you ready for him?
2007-12-14 10:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t know, some of us are just a late bloomer, because I was having the same problem, in fact even though I have a girlfriend no girl has ever tell me how they feel about me and I am now 25 so you are not alone
2007-12-14 10:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING AT ALL! The right guy is definately out there! Just be confident and talk to some if you like them! Dont worry, you'll find a boyfriend!
2007-12-14 10:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with u and there was to be one guy in school who likes you but wont admit it dont make ur self feel bad and dont worry too much about guys right now try and make high school the best years of ur life with ur friends dont worry about those things right now you will find a guy dont worry :D
2007-12-14 10:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by 10\/3you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because they just see you as a 'just a friend', it could have something to do with how you act around guys, that they only get a firend VIBE from you.
Mr. right will come...just be patient stop being so NEEDY because you'll never find him being like that.
Be yourself..."whatever happens, happens".
2007-12-14 10:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you, and for all you know, one of your guy friends might like you. just continue to be yourself and the right guy will come along
2007-12-14 10:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with u. i guess that mabey your not the girl guys in your school are looking for.............. but in any case, u dont have to get a boyfriend in high school.
2007-12-14 10:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by li.ace.anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a date in high school you just have to chill and relax a boy will come along sometime, you can't force a realtionship, it has to come naturally
2007-12-14 10:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prolly nothing....i kno plenty of people have found their love in a different area..if its meant to b it will happen
2007-12-14 10:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by that 1 chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋