theres this guy i really really like, i know he does like me some what but we aren't dating, we have made out and stuff but unfortunetly it hasent turned out to be a relationship cause hes woried our friendship would end if we broke up,
anyways, him and his buddies just started talking about how they like the "school tramp" and how they want to go out with her
does this just mean they want to have a one night stand or somethin like that, or does/could he actually have real feelings for her and my chaces with him are over
please help me, im so confused and scared and dont know what to do
2007-12-14 10:30:48 · 39 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Especially if he's a teenager, he's looking for sex.
Doesn't rule out your having a chance with him, though. Teenage boys are ruled by their testicles and you have to keep that in mind when dealing with them.
2007-12-14 10:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Abby O'Normal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel I must answer this question as I consider myself a sexual freedom crusader. Whenever I see a young woman calling another young woman a tramp I feel sad. These sorts of labels are very damaging, and I don't feel that young women who choose to have sex should be considered tramps. Even if they're choosing to have sex with more than one person. They should not be considered tramps because everyone has sexual freedom, you may choose not to sleep with anyone at all, or you may choose to sleep with whoever you want. The fact that this is something that can tarnish peoples reputations, either as someone who is frigid or someone who is a tramp, is disgusting.
Perhaps you and he are just not meant to be. Perhaps he does just want to have sex; if that's the case, he's not the right person for you if sex is not what you want. But there's no need to judge others based on what they choose to do. How you would feel if your tramp friend was calling you frigid behind your back?
2007-12-14 10:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by carlisleorama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you are saying and in what i have experience most likely he just looking to get luckily , and if you like maybe you should talk to him and said that if you do brake up that you could stay friends. Also he may just be looking to have sex with any girl who is easy, and he may not want to go out with you because he know that you would not put out.
Good Luck
2007-12-14 10:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off calm down. Second it is probably just him and his friends talking. He may like her but more than likly he and his friends were just talking crap. If he was really serious about dating somone and he knew your feelings he wouldnt have talked about her where you could hear. Also why dont you just ask him? Even as a friend you could state that you dont think it is a good idea if he goes out with her.
2007-12-14 10:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. If he likes you for real, he won't give you a "label" calling you a school tramp. If he gets laid with you, he will boast to all his buddies. My advise is to stay away from him. Play hard to get. Your dignity is much self worth than being called that.
2007-12-14 10:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants a one night stand. School tramp = easy sex with a hot girl.
2007-12-14 10:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rose Willow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't like people using the word school tramp to designate anyone even if they are loose. But my recommendation to you is that for now you keep it as friends with him, coz he seems more interested in sexual exploration, but appreciates you enough not to involve you. So wait til he grows up a bit.
2007-12-14 10:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by lampost blues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants her cuz he knows she's easy. No guys have real feeling for the "school tramp". She's bound to cheat on him if he went out with her anyways, so to answer your question, he just wants her to show her off and have fun with her.
2007-12-14 10:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by hershey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His decision is his alone. Who's to say, you guys are young. My experience is that knowing that a third party is involved and the person that I like wants someone else, already knowing how I feel for them only wasted my time. You are going to do what you want to do anyway. You asked for help, my opinion is to KEEP IT SIMPLE, DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHO HE WANTS TO BE WITH IF YOU ALREADY KNOW HE WANTS SOMEONE ELSE, and ENJOY YOUR LIFE NOW because once this year,month,week,day,hour is gone-it's gone for good. Don't waste your time, there are too many available guys out here.
2007-12-14 10:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by T-Mack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friends just want sex, they are probably really immature, and you all sound young, so this guy probably does not like you that much or he would forget the friendship and go out with you! Don't be scared, just tell him your true feelings!
2007-12-14 10:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds pretty ridiculous that you call this other girl a tramp but you make out with a guy who is not your bf. Explain why she is a tramp and you are not.
2007-12-14 10:34:11 · answer #11 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋