He always around ,he calls me when he 's at work or vise versa. we talk about ever thing and my kids love him,is it a good idea?
2007-12-14 10:27:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
K I know you may not want to hear this but it's actually not such a quite good of an idea to move in before you marry. Many times couples end up breaking up and never end up getting married, and if they do the divorce rate is increased. It's sad that womens Magazines in particular don't emphasize the facts behind couples living together, and just tell them to plunge into it.
2007-12-14 10:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by slayer_gurl888 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this something you want to teach your kids? That it is ok to move in with your boyfriend.
Or do you want them to learn to be strong and self respecting and learn to handle problems and not just rely on some other person to help you out. Teaching values is an important step in being a parent. He may not think that teaching a child it is ok to move in with someone as long as you love them is bad, but what happens when you break up in a few years and you find another boyfriend and he moves in with you?
I would say no it is too soon. He didn`t propose yet.
2007-12-14 18:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its a good idea especially with the kids around...u say they love him but they might not like him being there all the time, its an attention issue. I think u should wait a little longer, but hey it could b great, or it could b a disaster
2007-12-14 18:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you shack up with your new stud puppy, read Dr. Laura Schlessinger's book "10 Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their Lives. Get the drift from a professional Child, Family, and Marriage Psychologist.
It's wonderful that your children like him. Are they in charge? Or are you the leader and wish to teach them good moral values? When your daughter wants to shack up with some guy with out a commitment, are you going to tell her to go for it?
How about putting some value on yourself, tell the guy, if you want to live with me you'll have to marry me first. You are not a car and he doesn't need a test ride.
2007-12-14 18:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Charles S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
noo definatly not u have kids and u have to see what this guy is like around your kids and how ur kids will adjust.. dont rush anything... get ur kids around him more.. take them out when ur with him that sort of thing so they can get a feel and a say in if they like him or not.. like come on this guy could be like a pedophile or something.. check with the kids and see how they feel..
2007-12-14 18:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a couple more months and you get it girl you obviously got him whipped you are doing something right i think you got a good man which is usually hard to find so you make the decision that will make you happy.
2007-12-14 18:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by kuilla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I think that it is entirely to soon, you really need to know everything about him that you can find before you turn him loose with your kids.
2007-12-14 18:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hahahahahha!!!!
2007-12-14 18:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋