ok, so you know a girls mind right?when you ask us if we want a present or somtihng we mostly say no but half of the time we mean yes,and we like sweet scented stuff and...MAN WHERE SO DIFFERENT!!!!!
so any way heres my issue I like this guy and asked him if you want me to make you a cupcake or somtihng for x-mas?he said naaa I'm straight...What does he really mean?does he want me to and can some guy list the diffrences between a guy and a girls way of thinking?What do you think about?what do you look for in a girl ?I WANNA KNOW EVERY THING CUS I JUST DONT GET GUYS!WE ARE SO DIFFERENT ITS CRAZY!!
2007-12-14 10:27:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'D HAVE 2 SAY HES MYSTERIOUS CUS I DREW EM A PIC THAT HE ABSOLUTLY LOVED AND THEN I ASK EM IF HE WANT HE SAID YES THEN HES ALL LIKE NO I DONT WANT IT ANYMORE!!!???I WAS HEARTBROKEN THIS GUY WAS MY CRUSH YA KNO!
2007-12-14 10:29:12 · update #1
When a man says "yes or no" he really means it, or he is lying.
When a woman says "yes or no" she could actually mean no, yes, maybe, sometimes, or never.
There is no way to ever know what a woman thinks, they are the most complicated people on the earth- no offense.
Women want men to know what they mean or what they are thinking, and they expect men to know without them having to tell them.
Men are usually straightforward, unless they don't want to offend a woman and they lie...
example: "Honey do you like this dress?"
- woman
... the man better say "yes" if he wants to keep his sweetheart.
The fact is, the general man doesn't really care about the dress... so he says "yes" to make the woman feel better....
but "yes" isn't good enough for the woman, so she asks the man "really? do you think so? or do think the blue one looks better?"
At this point, the man is screwed... if he says "yes, its fine." the woman may think he is just lying, that he has no fashion sense, and thinks that it or she looks terrible in the dress... if he says, "I like the blue one better" then she thinks that the man is thinking that she doesn't look good enough in the one she's already wearing...
if the man says, "I don't know, whatever you want honey" he is being honest, he doesn't give a crap, he just loves the woman the way she is....
but the woman will think... "He doesn't care, He should know what I want to wear! He should be interested in what I wear... I hope he really likes this black dress.... I don't want to embarass him in public... I can't look good enough for him... Im not good enough... He doesn't care about anything I do... Does he really love me?!"
and then she starts tearing up...
and she becomes very mad with the man for the rest of the evening.
the man, seeing that she is crying... asks "whats wrong"
and then she doesn't want to talk...
He wants to fix her problem, or whatever.. ( all men want to fix things...)
So he appologises.... not knowing what happened.... but figuring out that he did something wrong.
but if and when she decides to talk... he should just listen.
The man ends up feeling really bad and gets sad that his girl is all upset and that its his fault somehow...
but the man doesn't outwardly show his emotions... he struggles with it silently...
and the woman continues to become offended over him, because he isn't crying or admiting exactly what he did wrong... or that he isn't asking her to talk (even though she acts like she doesn't want to talk and even says "I don't want to talk about it" to the man)
So the man is all like... confused...
"does she want me to talk to her, or tell her how much I like her dress, or did I do somthing else wrong today? I don't know... I wish I could be more sensitive to what I say and do.... I love her so much... how will I fix this problem?"
but this problem is no longer about the dress...
by this time the woman is wondering if her man really likes her, if he can't care about her dress... does he really care about her, did he lie about liking me when we first started dating... does he really love me...
.... so the man, says, " Im sorry... I love you." to her, hanging his head.
She immediatly ignores all her second guessing about him, and forgives him for everything... and hugs him... then is all happy and knows that he will never leave her and that he loves her so much.
meanwhile, the man thanks God that she is happy now.
its basically "darn if you do, darn if you don't" for the man.
please, women out there.... please be more straightforward about stuff.... us men are stupid enough as it is.... we can't handle all these mind games and stuff... we're sorry for being so dumb.... please forgive us and give us a hug... we love you, really we do. We'll try to know what you want next time... we're learning... please give us another chance... we're sorry :(
:) thanks
2007-12-14 10:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Agappae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't put to much weight and value on things. You probably are pressuring him. If you want to make him cupcakes, then make cupcakes and no need to ask for permission. JUST SHOVE THE CUPCAKES IN~!
also, all you need to do is think normally. Guys don't like girls who are kinda sorta an extra weight (unless the guy like that girl)
2007-12-14 10:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by A. Roman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are emotional. They act to their emotions a lot. Guys...well...guys are kinda mechanical. I mean they REact. If making love is in the mix a girl is probably thinking how close to this guy she'll be if she does it with him and the guy's thinking how good it will feel. It doesn't mean he has no respect for the girl. It just means he's liking it. If you're eating lunch a girl might be thinking how nice he was to buy her a burger and the guy
s probably wondering if he'll want another one. As for as what a guy looks for. Well...
2007-12-14 10:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, yeah, yeah...you're so used to answering a question indirectly, you don't trust a direct answer to actually BE the answer. I think he means he doesn't want the cupcake. So, to females everywhere: what's the point in talking if you're going to be dupilcitous? I mean, you think we don't have a clue, right? Well, granted...I'll give you that. So why be purposely more confusing than you have to?
2007-12-14 10:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-11 07:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll appreciate the cupcake. If he doesn't, then he doesn't appreciate you and you shouldn't waste your time. It's the truth so don't deny it. He doesn't have to eat it but making a cupcake for someone is nice so if he's good for you then he'll like what you did. I appreciate when a girl does something nice for me, but I like being the one to treat her.
2007-12-14 10:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy likes cupcakes, some a re just too manly to admit it.
2007-12-14 10:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing STUPID !!! He likes you just playing hard to get. Bake the cupcakes for him and I bet he will love them. Guys play games he just doesn't want you to think he likes you cause you might drop him hard and hurt his feelings. HE LIKES YOU KID !!! GOOD LUCK !!!
2007-12-14 10:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Joe A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's saying i'm too macho for your cupcakes, so make sure u don't give a cupcake
when he says no, he does mean no.
2007-12-14 10:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Joshua U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha he means "no im a man i dont like wussy cupcakes"
lol girls and guys are opposites for a reason..we complete each other basically.
but i dunno really. im not exactly sure on how women think.
2007-12-14 10:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋