ok. so i have this stocker (9th grade) i really don't like him and never talk to him... but he some how loves me? anyways...i refuse to go out with him and so he sent me a letter today. it basicually i have to do sexual stuff with him by monday or he was going to commit susicide! and i guess he has tried 3 times, but his friends always caught him before it was too late (fact) so, i got really freaked out so i gave the note to a teacher and told her to deal with it. i was really freaked out about it... and so yeah. what would you have done? and do you think he will thank me later in life?? thanks!!
2007-12-14 09:49:48 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stalker. Show your parents the letter and have them call his parents about it. What he's doing is illegal and very dangerous.
2007-12-14 09:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by adrianne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing! When people mention suicide it's a cry for help, whether they're a freak or not. Most likely the kid will not thank you later in life, but I guarantee you'll remember this experience and be wise enough to KNOW YOU DID THE RIGHT THING later on in life.
BTW, it's prounounced stocker....but spelled stalker.
2007-12-14 09:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by fiofunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably won't thank you and that is OK. What you did was the proper thing to do. If the person is really serious he does need professional help which your teacher is in a position to make sure that action is taken. If the person is not serious he still needs professional help and again your teacher is in that position.
An adult is the proper person to deal with this issue.
2007-12-14 09:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tom C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by giving the note to a teacher. Now, he will have to deal with some understanding adults instead of an intimidated teenage girl.
2007-12-14 09:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by CiCi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would quit spending so much time on the computer and learn your English! Practice your spelling and your grammar, because honey, at the rate you are going you will be lucky to ever have anyone other than a stalker (not stocker) with the way you just wrote that little diddy!
2007-12-14 09:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Oh my gosh!!!
You did what you should do. Allow for the authorities to take over the problem. While he is suicidal, it would have been a terrible idea to submit to his demands. It is disgusting!! He needs to see a pyschologist & you hopefully will be thanked for the action you have taken. You did the right thing, and you don't need to worry about this: it isn't your fault that he is what he is.
Let's just hope you don't have any more stalkers: THEY ARE TOTAL CREEPS!!!!
2007-12-14 09:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by sandboxjill2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Your teacher will report this to the proper authorities and/or his parents and he will get the help that he needs.
I know you're probably a little freaked out about this, but his infatuation with you is not your fault, his tendancy towards suicidal thoughts are not your fault. Do not blame yourself should something happen to him. He really needs help, and thanks to you, he will probably get the help he needs.
2007-12-14 09:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Damocles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called a "stalker". You did the right thing. Don't ostrasize him by telling anyone of your friends about it. He clearly has problems and probably doesn't need this going around school. Your teacher will know what to do about it.
2007-12-14 09:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will grow up eventually and realize how dumb he was being, yes. You did the right thing by telling a teacher. You might want to tell your parents too and somehow notify his parents because it sounds like his suicide threats are serious if he's attempted it before.
Good luck...
2007-12-14 09:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by LOL 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!
You did the right thing by giving that note to the teacher.
You don't have to do ANY of that stuff!!
I do think you should tell your mom so she can tell his mom or the police.
I hope everything works out
Jenny
2007-12-14 09:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Jenn♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would of hit spell check befor posting this question...You did the right thing by giving it to your teacher
2007-12-14 09:54:00 · answer #11 · answered by Crazy cat lady >^ ^< 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋