ok so i am 15 and was thinkin' about sex i know the basics like use a condom and like how to do it i guess you could say but i dont know what to expect~sp like what happens right after, does the female bleed or anything .
i have a boyfriend and im not going to have unprotected sex and dont even feel ready but i know he is and im afraid we might end up having sex and i just wanted to now what my body was going to go through after it
you guys probably think im a freak but i dont care i just want to know ~~ thnks bunches~~
2007-12-14 08:59:59 · 21 answers · asked by dbcanary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your too young I know everyone has probably already told you this but I'm speaking from experience I got pregnant at 14 i am now 30 and have a 15 yr old there is so much responsability that comes with having sex even protected sex it comes with emotions and other things that are to much for a 15 yr old to handle and the chances of you staying with this same guy are slim dont you want something special to give to the man you actually love cause this teen stuff is def not the real thing having sex at such a young age changed my life i love my son more than anything but I have so many regrets I would hate to see another young girl go down that same path save at least for a little while longer :)
2007-12-14 09:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by belle_g2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is way too young. Even though a condom is used, you can still get pregnant if something happens. I want you to think about the consequences that could occur before you have sex. 1) Get pregnant. How are you going to support the child? Will the father stick around and help support the child?, Can you handle being up all day and all night taking care of a sick child? 2) What if you catch something, like a STD that you have to live with the rest of your life. Well those are just two things I would really consider before having sex. I am not saying it will happen but there is a chance of something happening.
2007-12-14 17:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY ITS KINDA LONG BUT U SHOULD KNOW THIS omg truthfully u don't have to listen to the people that say Ur too young cuz i think age has nothing to do with it. its all maturity because I'm only 16 n Ive had sex with my bf who is 20. but I'm really mature n my bf kinda isn't ha ha n u know when Ur ready but dont let him push u or pressure u into it. n make sure u dont do it without protection cuz we did once n had a pregnancy scare which was the worst week of my life but he was freaking out more than i was. ha ha but I'm not. n guy with experience could last about an hoUr. okay penetration will hurt a few times but tell him to be gentle this also depends on ur size down there n his size also ha ha n for bleeding i never did my first time but i was pretty lucky i guess ha ha
2007-12-14 17:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the physical feelings for a moment - there are really good ones and maybe a little pain - it doesn't matter. Can you handle the emotional feelings? They don't pass as quickly. How are you going to feel emotionally afterward - that's the part where even experienced people get tripped up on. Fulfilled, happy, secure - or empty, scared, regret? It will have a lot to do with his actions after and those can leave scars if he pulls back or treats you like a conquest. Can you handle it!!!???
2007-12-14 17:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by tshnobodysfool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready then you should wait. This is your first time coming up and no one forgets their first. Also if you feel uncomfortable in the process, you might stay dry and tight down there and it will hurt, feeling like he's raping you. Just say no until the time is right for you. And if he leaves you, it's his loss, not yours. Every woman has something to give but it should be your personality and heart that he values most. Not 5 minutes of pleasure.
2007-12-14 17:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by ‹(•¿•)› 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off.
dont do it unless your ready. I PROMISE you will regret it in the long run. and yes it will hurt your first time. and as for the condom...good choice. the male just need to roll it on to the tip and it just sort of slides of the penis. and you may bleed the first time...not everyone does. I did...very lightly but not untill the next day. and I bleed the first few times I had sex.
I lost my V-card the same age as you...so I dont want to sound hypocritical when I say youre to young...
but I really think you should hold on to it as long as you can...
its very rare these days.
2007-12-14 17:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by asher smash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if you're scared. Nothing's going to happen after unless he forgets to wear protection. Honestly though I think 15 is too young. You should wait another year or two. And you said you're not ready, but he is? If he tries to force you to do it and you're scared/not ready then say NO. If you do it when you're not ready you might end up regretting it.
2007-12-14 17:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by natassiakc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing will happen to you afterwards.unless you dont wear protection.you wont bleed unless he hits a certain part of your female body that'll make you bleed.if you do then you just had your cherry popped.other than that nothing will happen.besides your to young and dont be scared to tell your bf "NO" that your not ready.
2007-12-14 17:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by oracio z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it if u not ready or comfortable. Seeing that it's ur first it's gonna be a bit painful but after a while it will pass, it's also gonna be special so enjoy it.
2007-12-14 17:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by Flirtatous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bleeding occurs from loosing your hymen, which occurs during sex. That is if you still have a hymen. If you have lost your hymen some how you shouldn't expect bleeding. Yes, use a condom, and don't do it if you're not ready to.
2007-12-14 17:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Hues 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋