I'm getting annoyed because other boys at my school call me sexy like in front of him and he doesn't care. I asked him if he was going to say anything to them and he said no. I guess i just want him to care more about me. what should i do?
2007-12-14 08:29:27 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you feel. tell him EXACTLY how you feel. if you tell him that it bothers you, and that you wish he would show a little more that he cares about you, then you will see what the next step is. if he says ok, i'll talk to them about it and i'll show you that i care a lot about you, then you should definitely stay with him. but if he says no, and seems as though he really doesn't care, then you know that your relationship with him won't work. girls want guys who care about them, and actually show it. if he can't show that he cares about you, then im sorry but i don't think it will work out. there is definitely a guy who will treat you like a goddess out there for you. it may be him, it may not.
good luck!
2007-12-14 08:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by yummyyummychocolatecake 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is just laid back. Maybe he is secure in the relaitonship and has no concerns about other guys complimenting you. Or on the other hand, maybe he is a jerk who really does not care about you. You need to talk to him and see what his reaction is. I assume since you said school, you guys are young. Here is a life lesson for you-- the guy will never think what you want him to, do what you want him to, or say what you want him to. For two reasons-- females expectations are too high, and men do not and will not ever think like women. Completely different species. Wait until you marry one!
2007-12-14 16:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by pupgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that you have a boy who is secure enough to not feel threatened by other men. Consider yourself lucky. Many young girls have the opposite problem with boys being too possesive and controlling. You have a good situation, don't get so caught up in little details.
2007-12-14 16:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful what you wish for! I'm a very jealous/over protective guy and it's a curse, I wish I was like your boyfriend!
I can see what you're saying though, maybe just have a calm chat with him and let him know that it bothers you that it doesn't seem like he cares.
2007-12-14 16:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit him in the head with a dating book and then give it to him. He'll come out of his senses.
ORRR
Don't worry, all guys are like that anyway. Well, Most. You're still in school anyway, but once you get older, he might appreciate you More.
2007-12-14 16:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by ツ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean he doesn't care... some guys want their girls to be able to take care of themselves, and he may just be confident in your attraction for him....
If you really want to get some emotion make sure you show yourself enjoying the commpliment without sounded like a little ho....
2007-12-14 16:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Okaydokay21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the other boys at your school are calling you sexy then i think that you should be with the ones that are paying you attention
2007-12-14 16:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
flirt back with the guys that call you sexy and that will get him steamed he will relize that he should be more protective and he will get jealous or mad
p.s. he probably isnt saying anything cuz he thinks your sexy
2007-12-14 16:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Hes just a boy & Im just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he likes the fact that other boys think your sexy and is totaly over the moon he has got you!!!
2007-12-14 16:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's secure or doesn't want to have a confrontation.
2007-12-14 16:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋