He lied to me too many times, emotionally cheated, blah blah... so I dumped his @ss.
We talked it out and he knows he has no chance with me anymore - i never take back my exes..... but now.. he is begging... i am still hurt and pissed off, and i dont want to date him anymore.
however, every day when i see him, i make it a point for him to see me... hear me... (subtly of course)... and keep in close contact with his friends (we are all friends) so they say "we did this with her and she said that"
JUST SO it will make it THAT much harder for him to get over me. I mean, he can to what he wants... but the memory of me will never, ever be gone.
And in the meantime, I will just do my thing and date who I please.
Is this sweet revenge? I see him every day, after all... and I cant ignore him.
Any other ideas?
2007-12-14 08:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u already broke the kids heart, don't make him hurt / kill someone Jesus....
2007-12-14 08:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Martin512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Hunny you are torturing him Yes he lied and abunch of other stuff, But you got over him, He still loves you...I don't know him and I also don't know you. But if it where the other way around and you where in Love with him and he broke up with you.
Would you want this to be happening to you?
If you are in fact over him then let it be over as far as sweet revenge goes "SWEET FOR WHO? This isn't who you are is it? Hurting someone because of the past could harm them for a very long time in the future. Be a good person I could never date a woman that would do this kind of thing to others it's not right. your ex is hurting do you really want that.
2007-12-14 16:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Tony Burke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now your enjoying it because he is giving you all the attention that you want. And as soon as he moves on you are going to feel like crap. I can already assure you that you are going to regret it. I am not saying that he doesn't deserve it but just be happy that you got out of the situation and move on do not rub it in his face because remember that goes around comes around.
2007-12-14 16:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with torturing this guy? Sounds like he want's any sort of attention from you he can get, and if you're nasty enough to derive some sort of sick enjoyment by messing up another person's emotions, then everyone wins!
Move on a don't be a hag.
2007-12-14 16:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by willie pheeler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are subconciously trying to hurt him because he hurt you. We all do it. Also, you probably love the attention you're getting....who wouldn't?
Just wait until he starts dating someone else....things will change, believe me.
Part of me wants to say you still like this guy, but you're being stubborn.
2007-12-14 16:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep sounds like you like playing this game. I assure you that he is thinking of other women. He cheated because of things u did or did not do im sure just by reading how you enjoy this situation....
Maybe get over yourself first and let him heal...
2007-12-14 16:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Phil Asks me for advice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet revenge--- No,-- wasting your time..... you don't want him now.....and when you do later on...he will have seen and heard so much of you, that he will be over you for good...
You will sit on the bed, and cry, and curse the world because it doesn't treat you the way you want.........
2007-12-14 16:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you date a friend anyway? I'm sure you'll feel feel crappy when he gets a girl prettier than you also. Won't you?
I think you should stop trying to make him miserable, because it may turn on you.
2007-12-14 16:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Swaggs, 2 wrongs don't make a right. you obviously have been hurt there is NO doubt about that.
But that doesn't mean you have to keep on hurting him !!
Just let it go already !!
2007-12-14 16:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, for all of the things that u listed that u said he did to u, then yeah he deserves a little torturing. but i think u got too into it and got a little carried away. lay off a little bit.
2007-12-14 16:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by xalliooopx3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs do not make a right. Stop with the foolish behavior and grow up.
2007-12-14 16:24:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋