Where is a good place to meet a nice man? Nice as in not a user/or abuser?

Question

Someone who will be kind and good to you? I am a quiet person, I don't go to bars. Help? I don't want to be alone for rest of my life!

Answer 1

Volunteering is a good idea, and you could always try Home Depot or Lowe's - that way, you could find yourself a nice man who's handy around the house!

Answer 2

The grocery store, here's how ; while cruising the isles, if you spot someone whose 'apperance' you find interesting, first thing to do is check out his cart to see if he's shopping for himself(or a family). If it looks as if he's only shopping for himself, get a little closer to him and drop something(to see if he'll offer to pick it up) or act as if you can't reach something on the top shelf and ask him for a hand, then you strike up a casual convo with him(start of by asking about a particular brand of food or something). Now keep in mind that if he does not offer to pick up or reach the item for you, you might want to move on,b/c this could be a indication that he's an inconsiderate a*******. DO NOT OFFER HIM YOUR # UNLESS HE ASKS.......This act might also work at the mall, the library, a bookstore ect. Another good spot to meet a guy is a sporting event , coffe shop,a fitness center and a bowling alley. But the most important thing to remember is to learn to enjoy your own company, get comfortable doing things that you enjoy, alone.Live, Laugh, Love...What you put out comes back to you........NEVER, NEVER, NEVER ACT DESPERATE.

Answer 3

You ask for an aweful lot and offer very little in return! You want him unmarried, nice and to boot to like your kids? You're not a model, so don't compete! Look for someone who is closer to your condition rather than setting your sights so high! The type of men you want can be found anywhere there are men. You just have to be more proactive in attracting the type of man you NEED to have, not WISH to own!

Answer 4

Church. Not social club disguised as "mega-church" or "Christian singles group", just a small conservative church that reflects your personal faith. If you aren't in church, start there--God can only bless you if you are walking with Him.
That's where I met my husband when I wasn't looking for him, and I couldn't be happier!

Disclaimer--there are some real losers out there trolling the Christian singles looking for vulnerable women they can take advantage of, you still have to be careful. But you will most likely meet a better caliber of guys than the bar crowd!

Answer 5

Try joining some groups that do things that you like to do, or would like to learn to do ... they can be book groups or groups that go mountain climbing and rock climbing and everything in between. You also could get involved at your church ... if you don't go to a church, then perhaps you should go 'visiting' at several to see if there aren't things that interest you there ... and tell everyone that you ARE NOT LOOKING for a man. That last may seem contradictory, but take it from me, I said that, and made friends with a man who said the same thing ... he was going to start 'looking' for his 'one and only one woman' in perhaps three to five years. Less than five MONTHS later, we were getting MARRIED. We were 'best friends' who PRETENDED to be involved, because we weren't interested ... and GOD LOVES A GOOD JOKE! We are even happier now ... and are planning on our 11th anniversary in February. We 'met' on Sept. 1. We started going together on Nov. 11. WE got married on Feb. 14. GET INVOLVED WITH LIFE and you WILL find the 'right man' for you!

Answer 6

Church, Work depending on where you work, and if your saying u don't want an abuser if your talking about a drug abuser an aa or na meeting... if your talking about a wife beater then you could also try a aa or na meeting, most people that go there have f*cked up one way or another and are trying to change, they are all good people

Answer 7

I can relate with you on that one, Ive been there myself and actually had put up the profile on dating sites...didnt think anything about it, then one day I had a hit we started emailing and 2 years later are still together, completely, totally happy...and neither of us are those pathetic type of people, we are both very work oriented and have hectic schedules so the internet was the best thing for us...We met on True.com

Answer 8

Try volunteering your time at a favorite charity. Typically only nice generous people donate their time there. Or go to church, some of the larger ones have singles events.

You could also try online or even here. But you should post a photo

Answer 9

I am 16 and signed up to a few teen dating sites... let me tell you they are useless :( I had 0 responses in about 2 weeks and i wouldn't say i was ugly to be honest...
i am a nice man who doesn't go to bars :)
But i'm probably too young for you!

Answer 10

True.com is the only dating site that has a psychologically proven compatibility test, single verification (so you're not helping someone cheat on their wife) and extensive background checks. I only recently found this out because they sued an individual for misrepresentation after he claimed he was not a convicted felon and the check showed him to be guilty of a sex crime. I only stumbled on this information because I am a convicted felon (non-violent and not sex related) and I am trying to find ways to be allowed reintegration even after ten years. I hope it works for you.