right he teaches me for science and sometimes does morning assembly. well i dont see him that often but he;s really annoying and makes his presence clear. like he hides my books and stuff and then puts them somewhere esle. this sounds really,really stupid but like two days agol he told me he needed to speak to me at lunch in his office. i went to his 'office' and he told me that he had a book to give me. he gave it me and that was OK. then i gave it back to him (i had him next for science) because he asked for it. then he told me he left the book in the library for me.. which doesnt even make sense. well i went over to the library.. it wasnt there. He came and told me "Oh i'm realy sorry, i left it in the canteen." I went to the canteen, it wasn't there.. i lost it. today he shouted at me in front of the whole class and made me stay after school 30 mins every day next week! so unfair! and then i started crying when i walked out of his lesson, he was really nice but then told me it was
2007-12-14
08:02:05
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..he told me it was all my fault and i shudnt lose it again! i tried to explain but i dont think i could cos he went t another teacher! anyway hes done lots of weird things before, like he and this other teacher [i wont say names] were laughing about me (i heard my name), he said he found my 'school diary' but put it in his office and to get it later, when really, i left my school diary in my locker! HE WENT IN MY LOCKER AND TOOK IT! i dont know how! its really weird! and also he shows me up in front of my friends or someone else, e.gi was talking to this guy i have a crush on, the teacher saw, came over and started basically having a go at me and trying to get me away from the guy! its really annoying! and once i slipped on the stairs, the teacher saw, he laughed, then later on was talking to my friends, and he came over and mentioned it, all my friends laughed! this teacher has also gone through my locker qite a bit, at least 6 times!
2007-12-14
08:02:22 ·
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i leave my phone in there usually and i think he might have got my number! he doesnt do this to anyone else, he's really quiet usually! help?
2007-12-14
08:02:49 ·
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the question is 'what do i do?'
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and yeah i dont understand it either.. he is really weird
2007-12-14
08:06:56 ·
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aida yes i can (and do) lock my locker.. i have a key but there's a key that unlocks all the lockers. either he's got a copy of my key or he uses the teacher's key. its really annoying! i feel like my privacy is being invaded! thx
2007-12-14
08:43:16 ·
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Wow, that's terrible!
First, please try to remember everything this teacher has done that's made you suspicious or uncomfortable. Next, write out a list of all these things in detail, exactly like you did here. Make sure you put alot of detail in there, for instance don't just say that he's been in your locker, but explain that he had your school journal in your locker and then it ended up in your teacher's hands. You won't be outright accusing him, but it's going to be obvious to other people exactly what this man did. And when you write about the situation where he embarassed you in front of your friends, make sure you refer to it as "public humiliation," this is something the school board/principal will NOT take lightly.
When you've finished your list, write a note at the end explaining that in these conditions, you've become so nervous and so humiliated that your education is suffering, you cannot be expected to concentrate on your studies when there is so much stress going on. Also explain that this is affecting you outside of school hours and that, for your own well-being, you cannot attend this teacher's class anymore.
Now make copies of the list! Give one to your parents, one to the principal, and give one to the superintendent. And make sure you save one for yourself in case you ever need to access it again! These people WILL help you! But it might take time.
If this is something you don't feel you can face again on Monday, talk to your parents about it right away and they should be able to arrange for you to skip that class until you have a new teacher for Science. If for any reason they can't help you, go to the principal's office on your own when it's time for you to go to Science and simply refuse to leave until your next class. It sounds childish, but it's just one more way of letting people see just how much this is affecting you.
Good luck!!! I honestly hope you can find a good way out of this situation!!! :)
2007-12-14 08:24:51
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okay, teachers are not alowed in your locker, as far as i know, tell the office, cuZ nobody should Be treated like this, u could probably get him fired, i had a teacher like that, really really weird and all, except he was weird to a lot of people, we all got him fired lol. also get ur locker changed. i would just tell the principle, write a not to them, or have a parent call, to avoid an awkward situation, get transferred into a different class if that doesnt woork. good luck. hope i helped =)
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2007-12-14 08:08:27
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answered by Anonymous
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WELLLLL........Your story doesn't make a whole lot of sence but what you should do is write everything down or put in you computer what he does that seems inappropriate to you. Then tell the principal or councelor if it doesn;t change but if you can drum up the nerve , You may very nicely and with a pleasant and sencere voice say to him what you feel and in the future if the book is not part of your homework...dont take it! just say your sorry but you dont want to be responsible for the book cause you might lose it.
2007-12-14 08:17:42
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My gr 9 and 10 math/science teacher is horrible I've had him for 3 semesters in a row I'm freakin serious! His name is Mr.Beer and he literally stalks me and he insults all his students too. This semester is the first one that I don't have him. He also picked up a smartie from the floor and ate it, but there is also a lot more terrible things he does there's so many that I be here all night typing this.
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Tell your parents! Try to make it clear to them that you're not doing anything to invite his attention, either positive or negative. If they don't see that he's behaving inappropriately and complain to the principal, then talk to the principal yourself, or to your counselor or a teacher you can trust. It seems to me (a long-time teacher) that this man has feelings for you beyond the ususal teacher-student relationship, and he's not even sure himself what they are. And can you LOCK your locker? If you can't, better not bring anything to school that you wouldn't want this man to see.
2007-12-14 08:20:00
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answered by aida 7
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I think that's really weird and you should tell your parents and your principal. The next time he asks you for a book, dont give it to him and I don't think teachers are alowed to go in your locker.
2007-12-14 08:08:29
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answered by lory 2
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Tell your school principal and your parents....he does sound really bizarre to say the least. At the very least he has no right to go into your locker and make fun of you.
2007-12-14 08:15:07
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answered by Bears Mom 7
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You need to talk to the principal, that is ridiculously inappropriate behaviour. The only reason anyone should check your locker is if they suspect you of possessing narcotics! Switch your locker, request to be transferred out of his class.
2007-12-14 08:07:51
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answered by la-la-lauren 4
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What? I can't understand your story at all.
Lockers are school property. If he had the principal or someone else with him, he had the right to enter your locker.
2007-12-14 08:04:30
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answered by Katie G 6
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I think he's either stalking you or just hates you. You really need to do something about it. Get him back for being so mean. I don't know how old you are or i'd give you advice on how but just use you brain and think evil thoughts while plotting.
2007-12-14 08:07:10
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answered by Orion 2
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