and how many children do you have? I want to know that how did your life get changed after having children?
Those who are unmarried, how do u see this relationship?
2007-12-14 00:01:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Ramadan
Married.
4 children.
children changed my life totally completely awesomely incredibly happily ecstatically....
a life full of children in a life full of diapers and joy.
god bless
2007-12-14 00:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by happy pilgrim 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Asalam Alaykum, Yes I am married alhumdullah.
I got pregnant 6 months after I was married and now my son is almost 5 months old mashAllah. Life changed A LOT after the baby. But I would not take a moment back. I never thought I could love as much as I do when I had my son. Its a pure love and you will see when you have yours inshAllah.
Before you have kids you take so much for granted like eating out (now its a drama bc my son wants to scream), sleeping in, taking a shower. Pretty much anything woo! He sure keeps me busy all the time. Some days I wish I could go back to pre baby for just a few hours ahh! I used to be bored ha how stupid I was to say that then, lol.
2007-12-14 08:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm Married Alhumdulliah it will be 2 years in February Insha'allah. We do not have any children right now hopefully soon in the future.
As some say that Marriage is hard take there word for it, it is hard I was engaged to my Husband for 2 months and then finally got married, so we still where getting to know each other so at times it was very hard and it is still hard. So far Alhumdulliah it is working great we both are in School right now both work so that is kind of hard becuase we don't get to see one another as much accept during dinner.
Communication is very important! as a woman we all like to complain about our problems but men not so easy on talking about problems so that part is very hard to help work on problems that need to be fixed but it is better alhumdulliah!
TO answer your question on how I see the relationship I love it Alhumdulliah so thankful to Allah that I have a good loving Muslim husband and has changed a lot.
2007-12-14 03:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by FeshFash 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am married to a wonderful Egyptian man alhumdillah.
We have two boys. Ali turned 4 last month and Omar is 3 today alhumdillah. I just had a miscarriage a couple months ago. InshaAllah we want to have another one soon.
After we had the kids our whole life was turned upside down. But alhumdillah I wouldn't have it any other way.
2007-12-14 15:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Umm Ali 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married with children,,,lolz who remembers that comedy show.
3 boys and a girl Alhamdullilaah. They are hand full but I wouldn't have it any other way.
Before I had my kids I had this schedule of having ice cream and watching a movie before going to bed every single nite.
well all of that has changed now, I just collapse on bed when they go to bed:)
its all about the kids now.
and having children made me appreciate my mother more, I can never repay her for all the thing she did for us.
2007-12-14 01:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Islam4Life 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am married but I have no kids as of yet. But my life has changed even after marriage. You have to learn to be more responsible and consider another person's feelings. Everything you do now will effect 2 people so you have to be careful with certain choices you make and unfortunately, may have to make some sacrifices.
2007-12-14 00:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Married- one child -- Before my daughter was born -- I was carefree and a tad on the wild side-- once she came into the picture I became protective, responsible & totally involved in helping "her" grow-- thinking less & less of myself-- I do have moments when I have "me" meltdowns-- but I ususally go away with a friend & feel much better when I get back-- Bottom line is that my daughter is my life. That will never change.
2007-12-14 00:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by darkness breeds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unmarried, only 16. I see marriage as a great thing, and really wanting to get married young (Before I'm 23, heh) inshAllah
2007-12-14 02:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 17 years and have a 14 year old son. My life changed for the better after he was born because you cannot imagine the amount of love and joy you feel when you have a child. I just recently married the love of my life in Morocco and will be much happier once he is able to come to the USA to be with me.
2007-12-14 07:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Assalamualaikum!
Im not married and still studying but my sisters are married and having 2-3 children each, and it changed there life entirely.
Now there priorities are changed, they think about their kids first and about themselves at last. They are always worried about their kids clothings, what they eat and almost forget their own meals in worry of their kids, they've become more responsible and their entire life revolves around their kids.
So sometimes i become afraid of having kids, its such a responsibility.
2007-12-14 06:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mona 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋