i get many proposals and feel soo sorry to turn down these guys cozi hav a steady boyfrnd
please help me on this
2007-12-13 23:19:54 · 23 answers · asked by cookey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even I get plenty of Proposals like how you've been through…We stand in the same category but I don’t want to ignore rather I make them understand about the circumstances that I’ve been facing.
2007-12-14 05:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dead Man Answers...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably really young and haven't developed a "backbone" yet. You probably should't even be dating, butanyway, you can't turn back now. Well, I guess you could, but... forgetaboutit lol Ok, sorry. Look, in the adult world, when you really care for or love someone; you could care less about the feelings of those you turn down. Maybe you're feeling more sorry for yourself than anyone else; sorry that you can't explore because you are tied to one significant other that you think you care for or "love". Maybe you should work on loving yourself. Figure out who you are. You are a foundation for everyone you come across in life. Build it up... With your own 2 hands, or else you'll have nothing to offer anyone. And trust me, it's a 2 way street. You may be lucky enough to meet somebody in the future who has a solid foundation and everything to offer, but he won't want to give it to you once he figures out your "house" is nothing but a pile of loose leaves ... so easily blown away by the wind. Yeah, you can rake them back up again, but who wants to do that for the rest of their life, over and over again, and who in their right mind wants to stick around and watch you do it. I say drop them all. Focus on you. What's 3 to 5 years in the great scheme of life? In the future, they'll probably the most important 3 to 5 years of your past.
2007-12-14 07:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by amfr16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you signalling something here!
If you are being genuine about this, then it might help with an answer if you were to say, for a mere example, just ~
How / Where they get to you...! and ~
Just what these 'proposals' are and ~
what form they take!
Are you talking 'marriage proposals' or....?
Anyfink ews u wont elp wiv?
Sash.
2007-12-14 07:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the steady one for the evenings, try the new ones - one a day - every morning.
2007-12-14 07:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cooooool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be stuck up, don't shut up about make up, discuss the best oven/stove cooktops, talk about your period, and other girly stuff you can think about.. make sure to ask whether you look fat in whatever you're wearing. You know. The basic stereotypical stuff
2007-12-14 07:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dollie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep quiet when boys distrub u becoz boys always like beautifull gril when they ask about u so u tell them u r a ugly gril i bilive next time they never distrub u . take care n enjoy ur life by ur self
2007-12-14 07:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by shampay_911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply say I'm flattered, but I'm in a relationahip. The guys will get it without being offended...
2007-12-14 07:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Randy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What U wanna say?
U r too Beautiful. May be, but u can tell them that u r with someone.
2007-12-14 09:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by sameer c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh what a terrible problem. just say... I AM FLATTERED. BUT I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP. that simple. never be mean or snobby... you may not always have a steady.
2007-12-14 07:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give them your best look of total disdain.
That should get your message across.
2007-12-14 07:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋