she constantly bugs me for,you know what,but i dont want to give it,not in the mood .every little thing she has a problem with.when she walks in the door ,she goes off,and her voice,man it goes right through me.i keep telling her ,would you stop screaming all the time!her is an example.she e-mailed me,telling me to have the kids feed the dog when they get home,i e-mailed back,ok they should be home soon.but the problem is i accidently has hit the button to make the letters big,no big deal,right.well she e-mailed me back saying,not to give her a f-ing attitude.i was like,what?well come to find out ,putting capital letters up means your yelling.now what would i be yelling for?we werent arguing .she just wanted to start stuff.well the point is ,because of this im not interested in her and when i say no,omg,it gets worse.do you know of anyone who acts this way,what did you do?shes been this way for a long time and im not the only person who sees it.i want out.of this house,bad!
2007-12-13 22:26:45 · 14 answers · asked by mr. y 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
counceling ,no good,didnt work.we have talked about it and im sick of talking.
2007-12-13 22:33:19 · update #1
WELL I GOTTA SAY SOME PEOPLE THINK ITS RUDE OF ME TO USE CAPITAL LETTERS BUT THEY'RE JUST CAPITALIZES YOU KNOW I DON'T MEAN NOTHING WITH THAT BUT YEAH SOME PEOPLE MISUNDERSTAND EVERYTHING BUT DON'T WORRY AS LONG AS YOU KNOW YOUR DOING WHAT YOU MUST WITH YOUR KIDS THEN YOU'RE OK I KNOW YOUR A GOOD DAD;) SO JUST TRY NOT TO PAY SO MUCH ATTENTION TO HER....
2007-12-14 05:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by JUST ME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want this to work then you are looking at this the complete wrong way with society the way it is these small things oftern wind people up but when you sit back and look at the bigger picture there wasn't really a reason to get angry if that happens again just say it was a misunderstanding you made a mistake and that your'd be glad to help her out with the kids or somehting along those lines also if you give her a bit of time together and romance she will feel more cared for and calm down a bit also remember girls can get sexualy frustated just as much as men :P
I think your 'i want out' sounds very imature thats seriously not an adult way to deal with it this was all a misunderstanding about a couple of stressed/easliy wound up people.
2007-12-13 22:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know the feeling. My ex nagged me until I almost went crazy. I wondered if he had some mental problems, as he would nag, repeat things over and over again, very negative too, nothing was ever good enough. I wouldnt pay 50 cents for him lol
2016-05-23 22:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either sit and talk to her, or get you both some marriage counseling. I hate to see you break up for the children's sake!!!
I hate sending text messages for the same reason. My bf used take everything I sent wrong. I would text "Good morning!" and he would text me back, "What is wrong with you?" I would text, "What time are you coming over?" He would text back, "Why, are you making plans with some other guy?"
It always caused an argument. Finally I just stopped texting, and told him to call me if he wanted to talk!!
2007-12-13 22:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her!! Hold her and keep on talking !!! Tell her how you feel and work on you relationship. It is so easy to walk away and keep on walking. The problem is that you don't solve anything. Remember family is all you have in this place, even if you leave you still have to make arrangements to sort out the children's lives.
2007-12-13 22:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i know you have dismissed the counseling thing but in all honesty what else do you have its not looking good for a sit down between you and your good lady if there is no common ground then you might be looking at calling it a day but who am i to say that to you all i would like to say is i hope things get better for you !!!!!
2007-12-14 00:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like youve grown apart from each other either sit down and explain how your feeling and maybe you can rescue your relationship or move on from the relationship
2007-12-13 22:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by cat47@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it basically means she needs some attention from u an some nice hot sex. grab her, put her over ur shoulders, take her to the bed and f**k her lights out. she'll luv it and will stop nagging u.
2007-12-13 22:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you have serious relationship issues, and that's not an overstatement.
Get counseling, or get out.
2007-12-13 22:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by jbradshaw77 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
your woman is dangerously underfuked. either start fuking her or divorse her and let her find someone else who would. u re like a dog on hay
2007-12-13 22:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋