Last week I have seen a boy at TV and i felt in love with him!! God,but he`s older than me with 5 years though.......Everybody says that I am not normal and i am going crazy but when I see the falling leaves and the snowflakes i am thinking of him and i feel so upset because I cant meet him! There is an ocean between us!! He is from Australia and I am from...a country in Europe! My heart is broken because I won`t meet him in any moment in my life! It is desastrous! And I can`t do anything? I want to forgive him but I can`t! I am thinking of him and i am drawing hearts writing his name inside them.....damn love!
Any advices?
2007-12-13 22:09:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And sooo what? A teenager can`t fall in love or what? I am 16!
2007-12-14 00:05:14 · update #1
Amy,
I understand the pain you feel, it is very natural to feel all this when you feel you love somene and he is not reachable.
But, please understand these also.
1. You saw him in TV, as a star, not in real.
2. You might be just attracted to his looks or mannerisms in TV, most of them are preplanned and directed. The real he may be totall different than what you think.
3. Right now it is a feeling towards his image, it could be just attraction, love may be far away.
4. You need to be careful about who you love or who you give your heart to. Such a person should deserve it, he should be able to take care of your feelings and respect your love. Right now you dont know anything about tis gentleman, age is not an issue, but you need to know him more to have stronger feelings for him.
5. You love him but you dont know whether he loves you. He does not even know you. So, there are all possibilities that you might end up hurt.
6. Whatever you do now are absolutely fine like thinkng of him, drawing hearts with his name in it, all that are natural when you feel for someone, but, we need to also understand whether there will be any practical possibilities for this.
7. You can find him, find his address, may be even reach him, try your best to make him acknowledge you, make him undersatnd and finally accept you. But that is a long, hard way for you with no guarantee of the result you want. Do you think your feelings for him ar strong enough for all this?
Think honey, think well. Think and decide how you need to handle your feelings. Only you can do that and come to a proper decisionas to where to stop or whether to take to a long journey ahead for it.
All the best.. And please take care of yourself..
2007-12-13 22:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with doer. Especially on #1. You have no clue who this person is. I mean he could be a pedophile or something for all you know. That and I would have to say what you fell in "Love" with was his looks. Just because you like the way he looks doesn't mean you love him. And speaking of which even if you did get in touch with him you are so out there that he would probably blow you off as a nut. That and I would have to ask how young are we talking here. You almost sound as if you're in your early teen or preteens. If so, you'll get over shortly. Infatuations come and go at that age.
2007-12-14 06:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Adrianna Scar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may see this boy as the ideal guy to fall in love with but if he lives thousands of miles away he is hardly the one, alright? Try to look around you and work within what is truly available to you where you live and I think you will be much happier.
2007-12-14 06:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
young puppy it's normal that people appearing on stage and tv or big silverscreen attracting their fans various reasons, i think you need to get some counselling b coz its a beginning of emotional disorder. people seeing so many of their fans cant love all and they can't manage with all who are in love with them and in real life they may not hold the good as you think and love, it will end up with disappointmens and suicidal attempt may follow. hence it is better to throw the idea in the beginning itself thinking of your precious life and also the precious time you are wasting on that chap have a good life , may god bless you with freedom from such dreamyworld and stay alive
2007-12-14 07:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by son of adoctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well world with technology has become smaller. You use the lastest technology of chating and webcam and you may find way for your life. But life is for living and enjoying. So dont stuck up or get frustrated and have cheer
2007-12-14 06:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by smart ca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that on tv people will "look" better than they really are in person.....im speaking of popularity and how it can make a person more popular so try to think of him as an average guy...
2007-12-14 06:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to focus on other things. Longing for something you can't have will only consume you. Good Luck!
2007-12-14 07:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear long distance relationships rarely work out... especially if they are on TV! LOL
You COULD send fan mail... you never know!
2007-12-14 06:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by piir8d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRLFRIEND THAT IS TOTALLY NORMAL FOR ONE TO CRUSH ON A CELEB .BUT I HAVE TO SAY YOU ARE GETTING WAY OUTTAA CONTROL SO CALM DOWN A LITTLE TAKE A DEEP BREATH MAYBE THE NEXTDAY HE MIGHT BE IN YOUR NEIGHBOURHOOD STOP ABUSING YOUR FEELINGS .
2007-12-14 06:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by latrelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an infatuation stay focused you find a true love!
2007-12-14 06:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by one10soldier 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋