There was a girl that really liked me & i really liked her but it was about 1 year ago. We REALLY liked each other! Sadly I moved away, but have now come back. Do you think she could still like me?
Also if she has a bf, what would she think when she sees me again? Would she dump him? Like the girl does in the movie called the notebook?
2007-12-13 14:42:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to be honest with you here, I know the feeling. If you two were that in love, the chances of her wanting you back again are good. But if she already has another boyfriend it's now a 50-50 chance. You don't know how much she loves the new guy, or if she really even loves him at all. If you really want to be with her, I would say give her a call just to say hello, how are you, (keep it simple and friendly) and let her take it from there. Just the fact that you called to say hello shows her that you still think of her. But for your own sake, don't push it/her, she could be in love with the other guy, and you don't want problems I'm sure. Good luck. Love is great!
2007-12-13 14:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsay S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are about 3 situations possible at the top of my head, and i'm not a therapist or anything but i'd like to give you my thoughts.
1. If she doesn't have a bf, its just a matter of time for you to get back with her, but personally try calling her first and ask her how she is doing. So it's more like getting to know the person all over again, and if she responds to you well, it means she is still interested in you.
2. If she has a bf and she likes him better than you, i advise do not try to take her away from the bf, for you might really buy some hatred from that girl and all 3 of you (including that other bf) will become depressed. But also, if that bf turns out to be some sort of player, take action and take her back.
3. If she has a bf and still likes you and wants you back, go for it! nobody has anything to lose except that man. But seriously talk to her on the phone or something first! And my opinion from your summary is that you haven't been in much touch with her, so good luck!
p.s. : things happening in movies don't really happen in real life, there might be exceptions, but the media likes exceptions not generalized stuffs xD
2007-12-13 14:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by jason j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes girls always have feelings for someone they used to like, just as guys do. As long as you did not do something to make her hate you, or not trust you. Then yes she will still like you. A year isn't really that long of a time! But no she probably wont dump her boyfriend for you. She is dating him because she, likes him. You can not ask her to quit and laydown everything, just because you came back. Your best bet, so she don't get mad at you is, to not interfere. And just be friendly for now, wait it out, maybe they won't last. If you try to jump in, she might be mad at you. So just play it safe..from a distance....Good Luck
2007-12-13 14:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ozzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if she 's got any class and is someone with ethics and is honest.... if she really likes her new bf and has invested her heart and there's trust, both ways, that would be really nasty. look at it this way...what if she does dump the new bf for you who has returned ? what would stop her from dumping you if there someone way before you who is going to return ? maybe she will just dump you without thought for that old flame, or maybe someone brand new will come along.. and she'll dump you. I wouldn't want anyone that would even do that I would not want to know someone like you that would want someone to hurt someone else, go get your own gf
2007-12-13 14:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could still like you. I liked a guy in middle school and ran into him years later in high school and still kinda liked him. It's VERY possible. If she likes you enough and has morals, she'd dump her boyfriend for you. Hopefully she's not a cheater because then you wouldn't want her anyways.
Good luck. =)
2007-12-13 14:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kaylyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, people change. You may not be what she is looking for anymore. Maybe by hanging out with you again she could rekindle that old flame. But, if she is in a relationship now, dont be a homewrecker!
2007-12-13 14:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a definite possibility, but I wouldnt base your hopes on a movie. Just take it slowly with her and if you're lucky she'll realise she's supposed to be with you and not her boyfriend. But it could take some time so good luck
2007-12-13 14:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by cactustree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything can happen in this crazy game we call love. All it takes is some charm, some luck, some perseverance and a positive attitude.
2007-12-13 14:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a movie it is real life. If she loves you and never stopped then she could be interested in you but if not then you need to take it slow. love is a very crazy thing
2007-12-13 14:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still likes you, but sadly if she has a b/f its best to wait till shes ready. make your self known and she'll come to you when the time is right
2007-12-13 14:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by lev101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋