feel weird when someone likes you but you have no feeling toward them???
There's this guy that likes me and he was all like trying to grab my hand ......i was so pissed off and I felt really unconfortable
what should i do??
i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings :[
2007-12-13 14:03:07 · 35 answers · asked by BoOoO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him how you feel, he should understand.
2007-12-13 14:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girlie, I know what you mean! I had this geeky guy after me for the longest time...it was weird...he would gaze into my eyes even if I was across the room...it was crazy! Anyway, what I told him was..."I'm flattered that you like me, however I would really like to get to know you as a friend." That way, he gets the hint. I guess if you wanted to be more up front about it, you could say, "I'm flattered, but I would really don't feel the same way about you." OR "I'm flattered, but I would really like it if you could leave me alone." haha...and then just ignore him. If he none of that helps and he comes up to you and holds your hand, dig your nails into his hand and say, "I asked you nicely to leave me alone" and walk away. haha...
2007-12-13 14:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by SJW44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. And although you make think you'll feel bad if you turn that person down, it's sometimes neccessary. If you don't set them straight that person may turn into stalker material or, oddly enough, feel that you led him on because you didn't tell him that you don't like him sooner. So I recomend that you let this person know how you really feel the next time you see him.
2007-12-13 14:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happens to me with this guy who I don't like at all! I actually feel kinda annoyed when he talks to me now just because i dont like him. What you have to do is show him you feel uncomfortable, whether it be pulling your hand away when he tries to grab it, or just talking to him less he will get the hint. Good luck!
2007-12-13 14:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by moey1192 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I really hate that. Sometimes they get mad at you like you're obligated to feel the same way towards them. Like you owe them or something. You didn't ask for this and it's not your fault that he feels this way. He should not try to touch you or harass you. But unless you are clear to him that you are not interested he will never know that you want him to leave you alone. Just don't offer him any indication that you like him, hopefully after a couple of days he'll leave you alone. If he doesn't you may have to say something to him. Don't feel like you have to date him or anything just so you don't hurt his feelings.
2007-12-13 14:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by summer 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be nice about it, after all it is a compliment that someone likes you, next be honest but use the proper words so that his feelings aren't hurt.
2007-12-13 14:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how you feel. Be kind. It might hurt his feelings but only for a short time. He will get over it.
2007-12-13 14:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Willow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a frank chat about it with him. OR sit him down and tell him you are so glad you are FRIENDS (stress this) and that you couldn't imagine it any other way.
If he doesn't get the hint, talk about another guy you have a crush on.
2007-12-13 14:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Just Tryin' to Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I usually just try to push her off from being on top of me, and them tell her that its her sister I like more.
2007-12-13 15:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by BigShot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to be honest, don't lead a guy on, let him down gently so he can have some pride and hook up with someone else.
2007-12-13 14:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by moosies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter, just tell him you don't like him like that. Even if it does hurt his feelings, there's nothing you can do about. There's just no feeling for him, and he needs to understand that.
2007-12-13 14:05:37 · answer #11 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋