So ive decided that i want to break up with my boyfriend. weve been going out for 3 months, so were pretty. close. but i just dont feel like things are working out. like he feels like more of a friend to me than a boyfriend. but i cant decide when to break up. is it meaner to break up right before christmas, or lead him on and break up after the holidays?
please give me some advice!
2007-12-13 13:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by karen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks guys
gah...
guess i better just get it over with.
but i really hate to do this so close to christmas
2007-12-13 14:13:51 · update #1
It's better not to lead him on. Do it now.
2007-12-13 13:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you get it over with, the better you will feel. I wouldn't lead him on, I mean would you like being lead on? I think it would be far better to break up with him right before Christmas, than to lead him on. But that's just my opinion.
2007-12-13 14:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by enamored_words 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should break up a month after the holidays. gradually lead him in that your not happy with the relationship and plus, both of you bought presents for each other.its just cruel to be alone during the holiday season
2007-12-13 13:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Monique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up before the holidays
2007-12-13 13:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it and get it over with. if don't he is gonna give u a gift and then u r gonna feel more gulity and things turn into a big mess
2007-12-13 14:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine 14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not lead him on it will only hurt him more. but if he is a friend do not lose that because friends make better lovers well i can say that my best friend is my boyfirend
2007-12-13 14:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by maraloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him what you feel right now, for he might be feel some sort of betrayal if you do it later.. just be honest with him.. Tell him not maybe your just meant ot be friends..
2007-12-13 14:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by ○♫mhytzhe○♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋