Me and my girlfriend of 3 months jumped right into a relationship after 1 week of meeting and then broke up a couple of weeks ago, we were having problems due to communication issues. We were having a rollercoaster relationship and we both let our past relationships come and hinder our new one (Not gonna go into details about that) we both agreed that we rushed into the relationship and didn't get enough time to know one another so we broke up. Now about a week later we said we were gonna be friends and try to start over and get to know each other, but I am having some issues with what we agreed. I really care for this girl and she says she really cares about me and not to worry about anything but I can't get over the thought of her talking to another guy and telling me she found someone else (We are free to date as agreed, but I don't want to date another woman). I don't tell her theses feelings but they are driving me nuts...any advice could help.
2007-12-13 12:26:14 · 3 answers · asked by alucard26001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well where do u think the problem is? You just told us!!! You said that u are having communcation problems and that u cant even tell her how u feel. No wonder why you guys are not together. You are not being up front with her. Tell her whats on your mind!
2007-12-13 12:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mike L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not really as controlling as you sound, but are just really young. You both need to back off and relax. Simply talking to someone is not a big deal. There is no point in getting involved in any relationship with anyone if you are just going to keep dragging around your past baggage. Don't rush things with anyone, or you will kill off something that could be just fine. If it is meant to be, it will be.
2007-12-13 12:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to what different humans say. Just do what you desire. If you're keen on her and desire to get again together with her, hold texting her seeing that she most commonly would not be speaking to you if she did not desire to get again with you. It turns out like you are concerned that she's texting you seeing that she desires to get again in combination however no longer but, however in case you desire to get again along with her, simply no longer too quickly once more, you should not fear approximately that seeing that you each look mutual in that experience. Just play it out till you suppose adequate is adequate and spot how the whole thing has headquartered.
2016-09-05 12:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by raj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋