2007-12-13 12:21:43 · 14 answers · asked by GiGi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was always taught by my mother that men are pigs. All they care about is ONE thing when they are in their teens - SEX. And they don't care who they get it from, or what they have to say to get it. They'll try every trick in the book to get you to drop your pants. Ive seen some ugly girls have tons of men around them only because they gave it up really easily. Some girls judge how appealing they are by how many guys they can get to sleep with them. These girls are called whores. Don't become one! You dont need to have sex with the first, second, third, or fifteenth guy you date JUST because you want to lose your virginity.
I was in love with the guy that I lost my virginity to. I knew him over the internet for a good 3 years before we even met in real life. So I knew a lot about him and he knew a lot about me. To this day I havent had a single regret about it because I loved the guy.
I am 25 years old and I have only slept with 2 men my entire life. YES, TWO MEN! The man I lost my virginity to - and the man I've been with now for 5 years.
You will know when its time to lose your virginity.. so don't try to hurry it up or you'll just end up in regret.
Make sure the guy genuinely loves you before you go that far with him. Make him "work" for your attention and get to know eachother for at least a few months before you take that next step.
If the guy truly loves you, he'll wait a few months until you are comfortable with the idea of sex. I was 20 years old and my fiance was 24 when we met. We dated and hung out with eachother every single day for 2 1/2 months before we had sex together. And I still don't regret making him wait that long. My boyfriend says even to this day that if I would have made him wait 6 months or more to have sex that he would have stuck by me, because he loves me.
If a guy makes you feel like he can't wait any longer for you two to have sex, then you dont need him. Any guy that pressures you for sex is only using you for sex. Once you give it to him he'll be gone and you'll be swimming in a big tub of REGRET.
2007-12-13 21:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Starlight*Angel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly girl, you don't know.
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!!!!!!!
It's all in the feelings you have for the person at the time. You have to be sure, he or she are the right people you want to do this with. It's a very big step to be taking.
You don't want any regrets too...You must be completely sure, that this person will be there for you before, especially during and after.
Do you have anyone you trust to talk to? I mean really talk to! Because you're gonna need it that person.........
But the main thing to remember is, have the right person, someone you can rely on, talk to, trust in, have fun with, laugh with and cry with. If you have found this person, you shouldn't have any problems.
PS: Try not to dwell on anything during the process. It'll hurt less, if you think happy, positive thoughts.
GOOD LUCK....
2007-12-13 20:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by tepania4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you never really know if it is the right time or not. Well unless you get married. If you married then you know its right. But before that its all a question of the heart. The guy I lost mine to back in the day promised to love me forever.. yeah well forever lasted 2 days.
Sometimes I wish i would have waited for the guy i'm married to today. .but once its gone its gone! Good Luck in your decision! :)
2007-12-13 20:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ashlee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's never a right time, but if u ave 2 ask this kinda question now's not the right time, but i'll count dwn the seconds 4 u luv lolol
2007-12-13 20:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Timo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find the right person i suppose and you don't have to ask these sorts of questions because you just know. Though personally I think 15 is too young. But it's your decision and people should respect that.
2007-12-13 20:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by echopark119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it happened --- im sorry viginity is overrated --- in 30 years time it will mean nothing --- the only proviso i can make is that it NOT be in the back of a car or some such --- somewhere quiet private with plenty of time and something nice to eat and drink ---- and practise safe sex always --- best wishes
2007-12-13 20:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not the right time to lose it if your in your teen years
2007-12-13 20:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really is no wrong or right time its really just whenever you are ready and when you have someone you really want to loose it with, someone you could be with or someone you really care about. not just some bum, just as long as its not a last minute thing
2007-12-13 20:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by XñΘ×ØÑΣ×└Ö√ËŠ×╫ë®X 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the guy cares enough to marry you and does.
2007-12-13 20:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nouri K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know because you let it happen and want to do it
2007-12-13 21:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by DudeDude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋