Well i bought this girl (molly) a flower and asked her out then she said no
then the next day another girl asks me out
but molly finds out and is mad at me because she thinks i said yes to the girl...she told me to not talk to her and she's not talking with me....i didn't even say yes to the girl that asked me out....my heart is still truly with molly.
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2007-12-13 12:10:07 · 41 answers · asked by SilverPhoenix762 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
text her. she might not answer your calls.
and if she said no to you, then why does she care if you said yes or not to that other girl?
2007-12-13 12:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by fashionista 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Molly only wants what Molly can't have. I think that you should leave Molly alone, you do not want to be in a relationship with someone who is that controlling.
If you are interested in the second young lady, the one that asked you out, say yes and see where the relationship will lead.
You do not want your heart to be stepped all over by Molly.
Good luck and have a Merry Christmas.
2007-12-13 12:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Molly missed the boat by saying no. Why should she care? If she's not interested, it's none of her business what you do with your dating life. And did you turn this girl down? Man, I know it's probably not the best timing on her part, but if she's interesting you better give her a call. Do you realize how rare it is for a girl to ask you out? It's a rare phenomenon, and I think you should give her a shot. Just go on one date, and if you don't like her, you don't have to talk to her again, but I respect a girl who can ask out a guy, and even if there wasn't much appealing about her, I know how hard it is to ask out a girl and would give her a shot. Forget about Molly-what's-her-name...unless you guys were close pals beforehand.
2007-12-13 12:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does she think that you said "yes" to the other girl? Make it obvious that you did not, and if she is not speaking to you, send her a text or leave her a note telling her how you really feel, unless you are planning on going with the other girl if Molly says no again, then Molly will have proof that you wanted her more.
2007-12-13 12:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Becksstein 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget Molly and go out with the other girl. What right does Molly have to either 1.) be mad if you go out with someone else, or 2.) tell you not to talk to ANYONE!
You need to sack up and quit letting women push you around.
2007-12-13 12:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though Molly thinks you are her posession and that nobody else can talk to you. You need to straighten out what you feelings are with Molly and then move on frm there. You either get a comittment from her, or you forget her. In which case she will probably chase you until you give in again. Either way, you win. Try it, you have nothing to loose, except a fickle Molly.pp
2007-12-13 12:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Molly is jealous. Ask her out again. If she still says no, ask her why she got upset about the other girl. Put her in an awkward spot. She'll let something slip, but don't do anything that would make her get seriously angry with you.
2007-12-13 12:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rose Willow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the girl that asked you out and forget about Molly. If someone doesn't want to be with you, you shouldn't want to be with them.
2007-12-13 12:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by luvianacaro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well from what I hear, Molly is extremely controlling and it was pretty stupid of her to have said no if she obviously likes you. But hey if you still have feelings for her, try asking her out again. And if she says no then just move on kid.
2007-12-13 12:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Molly probably does like you since she was so protective, just take it slow and things should work out. but if u do like the other girl, go out with her and have fun, then Molly may get jealous and want you.
2007-12-13 12:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey hun... my advice for you is to avoid molly for a while...until she starts wanting you, first just talk as friends after a while ask her if she wants to go hang with you and your buddies. . get to know her a little better and what she likes.. go from there. But don't push her, because obviously we don't like to be rushed! lol Been there done that. So if you need anymore help, hit me up, cuz im really good with relationships!!! by doll
2007-12-13 12:23:20 · answer #11 · answered by ~Farmer's Girl~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋