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ok so i totally i thin blew it wit this grl, we arent going out so technically it wasnt her fault, im not saying it is, im not even blaming her, now everytime i see her i get so depressd, sad, and even when i dont i cuz im always thinking about her. i even cryed one time i heard a horrible story about her, i never felt this way about ne1, and the worst thing is she wont tell me how she feels. i want a straight up answer like yes or no, it would make my day to just no where i stand. but everytime i bring it up i cry :(. that is one reason im depressed. but now im trying to just ignore her so i can forget about her and stop liking her, but she keeps talking to me and im trying to be mean, not like yell and stuff, but im trying to make her do it on her own. but i end up helping her neways. so today she asked if i was going to her bball game and i said idk prolly not, she started spasing out like a wtf kind of attitude,sorta sad. is she playing wit me, i rely cant stand the pain, but with

her im so happy like i always want to just hold her, but ive never told her my true feelings, only that i do like her.. im to afraid to tell her my true feelings

i also told her i didnt like her when i really didnt mean it and i cryed forever, that was after i said i liked her :(, sorry for being so long

and yea i am very sensitive and she doesnt have internet

only telephone

Answer 1

aww u r very senstive. try talking to a friend or email her what you said. you deserve an answer

Answer 2

You are right, she's playing with your head. Sorry to hear that. All I can tell you is that Guys like us, who actually give a crap what a woman thinks, are tough to come by, I applaud you for that dude. The other thing I can say is ask her one more time... Call her and tell her you have some thing to say, and you need her to listen to all of it before she makes a decision. Pour it out and lay it down. Say Everything you want to tell her about how you feel about her, and how good you could be together. It will be tough, but get it all out, then tell her you understand that she will need time to think, and let her go. And I don't mean just hang up, I mean clear your heart knowing you did everything you could. Because it could be what she needs to hear, and you could end up together... or, she may tell you it will just never work out. You need to prepare for either one, but at least this way you can move on with your life without a single regret as far as she is concerned. Life is short, give her a chance... Then move on. Good Luck Bro!

Answer 3

For god's sake tell her how you feel, she can only do one of two things, smile and hug you (which means she returns your feelings) or laugh in your face (which means she's surprised but might still return your feelings).

Honey, there will always be other girls. You might need to see a professional if you're always depressed and unhappy. A relationship might not be a good idea for you right now.

Answer 4

Well how do u expect her to tell u hers? I think she likes you. U just need to sit her down and tell her how u feel. If she doesn't feel the same forget her. Sometimes when a person knows that you will do any and everything for them they take advantage of that and don't treat you the same.She probably doesn't deserve u. Try writing her a letter. Its going to hurt but u are young, there will be many more! GOD BLESS, AFM!

Answer 5

You should tell her exactly how you feel. I know it can be hard to open up to someone about the way you may feel about them because, they may try to take advantage of you if they feel that you are in a vulnerable state. Just be careful if you do decide to tell her...Don't blab off at 100mph and then over blab and open up to much. Just express a few feelings to get her to open up to you and checkout her response. If it is positive then leave it at that for now...If it is negative bottle it up and keep moving!!!

Answer 6

OMG this is happening to me too! i just got dumped by my BF and normally i am a strong willed girl and never cry at school or anywhere else, but when i see him having fun with his friends i start to burdt with tears or feel depressed but dont worry about it . it will pass with time thats why i am trying to stand strong

Answer 7

dude im practically in the same position as you, so my advice to you is to be nice to her, help her out, dont ignore her, and if you play your cards right and give her some time you might be able to get that poo-tang. And no shes not playing with you, she wants to get to know you better, and she wants to be your friend. So show some love back and maybe she might want to be more?

Answer 8

aww how sad :(
i think u shuld rele tell u how u feel about her 2 her, u shuld let her kno...u may hav given little signs and hints but maybe shes just not getting them. try asking her out, i kno it may be awkward, but u will alwyas b wondering her answer until u actually get one, so give it a shot, and GOOD LUCK!!! ^^

Answer 9

if she has been asking you if you are going to her ball games, if she has been talking to you (even tho you have tried to be 'mean'), if she is around you when she doesn't need to be around you, then she likes you. some girls don't like being forced to say 'yes, i like you' or 'no, i don't'...i would try my best not to ask her anymore, but, i would make myself available to her, if i liked her. don't be acting all desparate when you are around her...when you cry, that appears desparate! no girl likes to see a guy cry over her...it makes her feel like $hit!

Answer 10

Tell her you wanna get back with her,let her know how much you still care. she obviously still has feelings if she was mad at you for not coming to her game.